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Irrationally annoyed by a Facebook post

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irritatedgrumpyarse · 19/09/2013 18:31

Namechanged as this one definitely has the potential to out me.

Friend on Facebook posted this today - why on earth is is irritating me so much? If it had been written by an observer of the event I would get it.... but to write this sort of gushing crap about yourself I find, simply, weird.

Had an eventful start to the day, heading home from dropping DD in school I noticed a large group of children and a girl on the floor, I pulled over to find out what had happened as other adults turned up, we sent the group of children to school to get a teacher one adult rang her mum and an ambulance (as she had banged her head and hurt her arm).

I went into first aider mode, we got coats and blankets from some of the neighbours, a big umbrella from ours and I took my help for Hero's hoody off and gently placed it under her head and injured hand. (That's community spirit when you need it) :)

The girl was visibly distressed so kneeling in a puddle I calmed her by getting her to concentrate on slowing her breathing and spoke calmly and stroked the side of her forehead, she calmed down, the Paramedics eventually arrived and whisked her off to hospital.

Hope the girl is OK and on the mend soon, now for me it is back to the normality of everyday life, according to DS though I am a hero (he saw me looking after her as he got on the bus :)

A lovely thing to do, wasn't it? If that was one of my DC I'd be relieved and grateful that someone had stopped and taken care of them.

It's the way it's written I think, so bloody humble and worthy. Was there any need for telling the world your hoodie is a Help for Heroes one? Kneeling in a puddle? Seriously?!!

I know IAprobablyBU, it's Facebook, yada yada. But it keeps appearing in my feed and really annoying me. Seriously thinking about blocking her to stop it! She's a really nice girl usually. Am I being awful?

OP posts:
Spartak · 21/09/2013 01:10

As a first aider she should know that you really shouldn't move a person's head or neck even if it was to gently place a hoody underneath, when there is a head injury.

So I'm not convinced her actions were as noble as she thinks they were.

NutcrackerFairy · 21/09/2013 06:50

I think Facebook has become the equivalent of those cringe worthy Christmas Round Robin letters...

We don't seem to get so many of these threads now [and I LOVED them]

Obviously all those who would have perhaps written one 20 years ago have found facebook and are kindly taking time out of their busy and important lives to keep us mere mortals updated with all the fascinating details. We are, after all, just gagging to read the latest awe inducing instalment...

Facebook... it really is the gift that keeps giving!

differentnameforthis · 21/09/2013 07:42

Seriously, why say anything? Let alone something as nasty, spiteful & bullying as "your medal is in the post"

It is her page, she can post what the hell she wants. Who cares if she has detailed it too much for your liking, or if you think she sounds smug, it isn't your page.

To stop it appearing on your feed, hide it. It isn't up to her to censor her life for your needs.

It's akin to going into her house & telling her not to put pictures on her walls.

DancesWithWoolEnPointe · 21/09/2013 07:51

I do get very irritated with people who post on facebook looking for affirmation, and I never ever give it to them, I purposely ignore them, but I have to agree with other people, it is her FB, let her post what she wants. Just ignore it. Be the bigger person.

TooTabooToBoo · 21/09/2013 08:01

Is the hoody ok? misses point entirely Grin

feelingvunerable · 21/09/2013 08:14

I wonder if she would have used the hoodie if it had been say, Jack Wills?

DancesWithWoolEnPointe · 21/09/2013 08:22

I was wondering that too vunerable - if it was a Boden cashmere hoodie I bet it would have been saved Grin

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