We had a Sri Lankan maid the last year we were there and I assure you that she was not badly treated, abused or underpaid. She was properly sponsored, given holiday pay, a flight home and medical card paid. I knew a lot of people who had maids and I imagine that most decent people were decent employers but you do get fuckers, yes. But not in Dubai only surely?
She was lovely and we are still in touch and she always sends cards to my kids. And she is still there, working for another family, who she now loves too. She has bought a house in Sri Lanka and sends money home to her daughter, who she has paid through college and who is just about to graduate. Her daughter lives with her granparents in Sri Lanka, which is very common.
When the Tsunami happened in 2004, DH and I gave her a substantial amount of money to give to her relatives whose house had been destroyed. I don't tell you that to receive brownie points, in fact I don't think we have ever told anyone at all, but I feel that it is necessary to point out that having a manicure in Dubai does not make one a cunt, and that the sins of others are not passed on as everyone's sins, simply by merit of trying to improve their lives and being in the country. By this logic, she would be culpable too as she certainly liked to get her nails done for her big day at Church on a Sunday with all her friends.
The construction worker case might well be human right abuses in some cases (and I don't need the use of bold text), but as I have said, it's their own bloody lot doing most the harm. Happens a lot, The Irish gaffers were the biggest bastards to the Irish construction workers here and in the US. Sad. And it's happening all over the world.
And so the circle turns. Or it does in this debate anyway.