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AIBU?

To have told DP mum?

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HeyUGuys · 07/09/2013 20:45

My DP got hit by a car today and was taken to hospital with head/neck injuries.
He and inlaws fell out a while ago and havent spoken since, i have a good relationship with MIL and take dc to see her every week.
DP is on his own at hospital as i am at home with dc, i rang his parents as i thought they should know, they have left to go to hospital, did i do the right thing or should i have left it alone?

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diddl · 08/09/2013 08:54

This may have made him resume contact anyway.

Perhaps it was OK for you to tell them-but maybe they shouldn't have assumed that he would want them to visit & should have waited to be asked?

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kmc1111 · 08/09/2013 09:20

I think YABVU and I think his parents were U for going to the hospital. I would absolutely hate it if DH did that to me, it's not even remotely his place to make that decision, and for my estranged parents to come and force themselves on me when I'm incapacitated and unable to get the hell away from them would be a huge violation.