After weeks of complaining about my sons behaviour and saying I do nothing to keep him under control (in particular his disrespect of our house) dp has just been encouraging ds to bat badminton shuttlecocks at the bathroom window. One of which came in and knocked a new ornament I'd bought into the toilet. The pair of them are in stitches over it. If that had been me encouraging that kind if behaviour he'd have gone fucking mental. I tell ds over and over again not to chuck stuff at the windows. Why bother??? Or am I overreacting??