to feel gutted that M&F in-law had DS hair cut SHORT

[airyfairy1978]

Am I just being pathetic here? DS is 2. Ive only ever had his hair trimmed a bit- I like longer hair on boys! he stayed with nan & gramps overnight & came home with a SHORT back & sides. I feel so upset, like I'm grieving or something. M-in-L recognised it was too much & apologised. I just wanna cry every time I look at my boy. I hardly recognise him!!!

Yanbu

I would be upset too. And I wouldnt let him visit without me again.

I don't feel they have any right to cut your child's hair without your permission. I'd be pissed off too! X

They were totally wrong to do what they did. Your use of the word 'grieving' was very crass though.