come again??!!

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was just in bedroom getting changed and oh said 'mmm' whilst trying to grab my bum 'those knickers are nice.look like a proper mature forty odd year olds bum in those'.
(im thirty five)
just a bit confused a to what the hell he means?
was this some kind of misguided complement.
eh?

What's you AIBU?

sotrry.aibu to be a bit confused as to what he actually means?

Sounds like somthing my OH would say. Very, very poor meant-to-be-complementary-but-quite-offensive.

a) LTB

b) Kill Him

c) demand a take away, a hot bath, wine and chocolate as a form of apology.

d) return the "compliment" - what can you think of to highlight/exaggerate/pick on

how about "ta for the snog DH, just like a proper slobbery old man that was"

Why don't you ask him?

I just said 'wow.havent you just made my day!'

Tell him his ball bag is as saggy as a pensioner's.

Oh God I just remembered DH before he was DH (and he nearly wasn't after this comment) once referred to my curvy size 14 form as "nice and plump"!

PLUMP FFS!!! that's the ruddy-faced farmhouse wifey in the famous five books, matey.

PLUMP!! indeed.

I was gobsmacked into silence, reader.
But he must have picked up the vibes cos he never ever said it again.

I did ask and he couldn't really explain what he meant.
what an extremely strange thing to say.
the weirdo!

Is he usually into that whole cougar thing?

lol picnic.
I actually said to him'have you got a thing for older women then?'

and his ex is actually 8 years older than him:/
that's only just occurred to me.
should I be worried?

I was just thinking exactly the same about your paunch, dear.

I wonder of he was trying clumsily to tell you he didn't like the underwear you had on, he thought it frumpy?(Is it ?? )

maybe that's it mini.
hes a typical G-string fan and these were nice pretty white frenchies.

Why be worried? It sounds like he's unlikely to run off with a younger woman!

He prefers a 40yo to a 30yo. As there is no way you will be 30 again, surely that's a good thing?

Okay, I admit, I'm trying to find a positive spin. I'd be pissed off too!

Check his Internet history and you'll probably find he's been looking at granny porn!!

If you were 25 i'd be more worried but you're 35.

Only 5 years off 40 anyway

You wont change that much in 5 years! Who mentioned pensioners?!?!

If he'd said mmmm 50/60 year old bum it'd be more odd IMO.

mmm.id rather have my arse compared to a 26 year olds though to be honest.
who wouldn't?
granny porn? eww!