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AIBU?

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To think calling your parents 'Mummy & Daddy' is a bit silly after a certain age..?

226 replies

Whothefuckfarted · 24/07/2013 19:23

Example: 20 years old, mum to one, own place, but still refers to her parents as 'Mummy & Daddy'

I received a text from her when she was in labour saying 'Mummy's coming round to take me to hospital'

Often refers to them as 'Mummy & Daddy' in direct conversation and on social media sites too.

I totally cringe every time. AIBU?

OP posts:
LadyBryan · 24/07/2013 19:24

I call mine Mama and Pa Grin

Horses for courses

Peartreepeartree · 24/07/2013 19:25

Why does it bother you?

Mumsyblouse · 24/07/2013 19:25

I still have a mummy (some of the time) and I'm in my forties. Who cares? I remember trying to change it when I was at secondary school to mum to fit in. Don't bother now.

Emilythornesbff · 24/07/2013 19:26
Grin Yes YAbu. Silly. That's what she calls them.
Whothefuckfarted · 24/07/2013 19:27

I don't have a clue, it just makes me cringe. I guess IMO mummy/daddy is just something children call their parents. Not grown adults.

I can't be the only one with this petty gripe? Grin

OP posts:
MiniTheMinx · 24/07/2013 19:28

At least she doesn't call them Mater & Pater.

isitsnowingyet · 24/07/2013 19:28

YABU - You need to cringe about something worth cringing over.

Mollie272 · 24/07/2013 19:29

My DH is from Northern Ireland - it's very common there.

MrsPennyapple · 24/07/2013 19:29

An ex of mine used to call his parents mummy & daddy, at age 27, I found it weird. Couldn't tell you why though.

teacher123 · 24/07/2013 19:29

I am 32 and still call my parents mummy and daddy. I just couldn't give a toss what other people call their parents!

isitsnowingyet · 24/07/2013 19:29

Oooo - I like MAter and Pater Grin

HenriettaPye · 24/07/2013 19:29

Mater and pater GrinGrin

LeoTheLateBloomer · 24/07/2013 19:29

I refer to my DF as Dad but he'll always be Daddy or Papa to his face.

kinkyfuckery · 24/07/2013 19:30

I think it's a little strange, but probably because I don't really hear it very often.

My kids are slowly stopping calling me Mummy at the ages of 5 and 8. I wish they wouldn't Sad

wanderings · 24/07/2013 19:30

"Eustace Clarence Scrubb called his parents not Father and Mother, but 'Harold' and 'Alberta'. They were very up-to-date and advanced people."

DiaryOfAWimpyMum · 24/07/2013 19:30

YANBU I also cringe although better than mamma

Alisvolatpropiis · 24/07/2013 19:31

I know where you're coming from,after a certain age people don't seem to generally speaking. There's nothing wrong with it,it's just not the norm (where I live anyway)

Whothefuckfarted · 24/07/2013 19:31

Grin mini

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ZillionChocolate · 24/07/2013 19:31

What teacher123 said. I wouldn't refer to them as that to other people, I'd say my mum/mother.

qualitytoffee · 24/07/2013 19:31

i call my parents mum and daddy! Grin Is it cos i am Irish innit Grin xx

Bunbaker · 24/07/2013 19:32

I think it is odd. I also think it depends on where you live and, sorry, but what class you are.

I used to know a woman in her 60s who called her mother mummy. This lady had ideas above her station. She came from a humble background - her mother was a retired seamstress and her father used to work at the steelworks. The mother wanted her children to do better than she did and sent her children for elocution lessons and pushed them through education. The daughter (who was very eccentric) adopted all the mannerisms of the upper classes, including calling her mother mummy.

Hashtagwhatever · 24/07/2013 19:32

Yes, my niece 18 calls my dsis Mammy.
Gets right on my tits every time she says it.

MadBusLady · 24/07/2013 19:32

I still use them sometimes. Mummy is a lot better than "Muuu-uuum" IMO.

kali110 · 24/07/2013 19:32

I allways called my dad daddy, up till i lost him when i was 22. Never embarrassed. Up to me what i called him.

MiniTheMinx · 24/07/2013 19:33

I think its a class thing.