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AIBU?

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To think calling your parents 'Mummy & Daddy' is a bit silly after a certain age..?

226 replies

Whothefuckfarted · 24/07/2013 19:23

Example: 20 years old, mum to one, own place, but still refers to her parents as 'Mummy & Daddy'

I received a text from her when she was in labour saying 'Mummy's coming round to take me to hospital'

Often refers to them as 'Mummy & Daddy' in direct conversation and on social media sites too.

I totally cringe every time. AIBU?

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Winterwardrobetime · 24/07/2013 19:57

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Salmotrutta · 24/07/2013 19:57

I don't think people think its low class (whatever that might be) specialsubject!

I've only ever heard "posh" grown up people using Mummy and Daddy!

( I don't believe in class anyway. Just good, bad and indifferent with some people being richer than others)

MrsPercyPig · 24/07/2013 19:58

OP you are so lighthearted and witty! Hmm

MiniTheMinx · 24/07/2013 19:59

I like the Mut and Dat I'll have to remember that, mine are 8 and 12 so we are still Mummy and Daddy at the moment.

Whothefuckfarted · 24/07/2013 20:00

Some people take this all too seriously...

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fluckered · 24/07/2013 20:00

no offence intended but mummy sounds so spoilt and snobby. must be the irish in me. I realise its not logical. but that's what I picture.

I blame peppa fuckin pig!!!

IslaValargeone · 24/07/2013 20:01

Whothefuckfarted You have made me laugh out loud

magimedi · 24/07/2013 20:01

I wish I still had my mother here to call here 'Mummy' (or Mum, Mam, Ma, Mumsie.)

I am 58 & there are times when I still think - "I want my Mum".

Does it matter WTF you cal them?

magimedi · 24/07/2013 20:02

call

Feminine · 24/07/2013 20:02

Another nasty thread. Op, have you considered this might be a bit mean?

Rufus43 · 24/07/2013 20:03

My daddy is daddy and my mummy was Mater and then Matey.

So yah boo sucks!

Whothefuckfarted · 24/07/2013 20:03

magimedi not at all, of course it doesn't matter in the slightest. It's not like my ears burn off when I hear it Grin

Just makes me cringe!

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Whothefuckfarted · 24/07/2013 20:04

feminine

You must live a sheltered life to consider this a nasty thread....

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Bunbaker · 24/07/2013 20:06

Like I said, it depends on where you live. I live in South Yorkshire and mummy and daddy sound horribly upper class.

JassyRadlett · 24/07/2013 20:07

Whorhefuck I was actually quite enjoying the thread until your tampon comment. Seriously?

Xihha · 24/07/2013 20:08

I'm 25 and still call my parents Mummy and Daddy when I'm talking, I try not to on here or facebook though because i know a lot of people find it weird. Mummy is nearly 60 and still calls her parents Mummy and Daddy too, as do her sisters and Grandmama says Mummy and Daddy when she talks about her parents too.

It might well be a class thing as my Mother's family are incredibly posh.

VisualiseAHorse · 24/07/2013 20:09

My OH still calls his Mummy and Daddy. In fact his mum refers to his dad as Daddy too. Rather than 'your dad'.

I find it VERY WEIRD.

Wbdn28 · 24/07/2013 20:09

YABU

Rufus43 · 24/07/2013 20:09

Tho I do say mum and dad when I am talking about them. And my children call my Dad Pa, he now only answers to that so I look a right twat yelling "daddy! Daddy! Daddddeeeeeeee!" in shops. I have to call him pa now!

wigglesrock · 24/07/2013 20:10

I'm in NI, I think I still sometimes use it. My Mum see what I did there still calls my Nana Mammy, so do all her siblings and my Nana signs birthday cards to them ..... love Mammy.

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wigglesrock · 24/07/2013 20:13

Rufus43 my kids call my Dad - Pa Smile

tallulah · 24/07/2013 20:13

YABU. None of your business what other people call their parents. My 27 yo and 25 yo call us mummy and daddy. My 23 and 21 yos call us ma and pa. I answer to either mummy or ma. My 6 yo is trying to switch to mum.

I cannot bear mum. When I was too old to call my mother mummy I just stopped calling her anything at all.

VisualiseAHorse · 24/07/2013 20:13

It's like calling a dog 'a doggy' for me - something that children say. Yuk.

Of course, I'd never say that to my OH. He's quite posh too, boarding schools and all that.

Mum and Dad is fine. Or even Ma and Pa. Adding the 'y' on the end makes me go 'urh'.

Capitola · 24/07/2013 20:14

My parents always called their parents mummy and daddy - even when said parents were 80 plus.

My neighbour's grown up children call him 'papa', but they're vair posh.

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