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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To think our house might be haunted?

166 replies

SunBathinginNevada · 25/06/2013 14:31

I'm a non-believer usually but some weird shit has happened since we moved in 3 weeks ago. The heating keeps turning itself onto the highest setting (it was like a sauna in here yesterday) and we keep finding water splashes up walls when nobody has been in the house.

Last night I went to our bedroom to find all the duvet and pillows off the bed and on the floor. DH swears he didn't do it.

Today I come home from work and my ornamental elephants are laid on their sides with their tusks missing and what appears to be a red liquid leaking from them and onto the carpet. It looks awful. Nobody else has been in the house. AIBU to start wondering if maybe something weird is going on?

OP posts:
Pennyacrossthehall · 25/06/2013 14:55

Wheresmycaffeinedrip these things fascinate me beyond belief.

Fascination is OK, as long as you know it's not real. Wink

dufflefluffle · 25/06/2013 14:55

Marking my spot here - fascinating stuff! Could your dh be setting you up????

Wheresmycaffeinedrip · 25/06/2013 14:59

penny but it is real Wink

Fully fledged believer here!! :o

WafflyVersatile · 25/06/2013 15:00

changing locks is fairly inexpensive and easy. Change the lever one rather than the yale one (assuming that's what you have)

Take the lever one out and to a local hardware shop and the new one will probably slip right in (ish) You can get 5 lever dead bolts for about £20.

Remember to do the back door too.

It's not ghosts.
No windows left open or openable?
No cat flaps and cat couldn't do all that.
No signs of break-in.
No shared loft space?
That leaves someone who is in possession of a key to your house playing silly-buggers.

ShatnersBassoon · 25/06/2013 15:02

The logical explanation is far more frightening than a haunting Confused. If these things really are happening and you're convinced your DH isn't to blame, you need to let the police know that someone is getting into your house and doing things that are frightening you.

LifeIsBetterInFlipFlops · 25/06/2013 15:04

Agree with Shatners, someone has been in. Do you have any DC?

squoosh · 25/06/2013 15:04

I would definitely prefer a ghost to some mortal weirdo breaking in and doing these things.

Change The Locks!

phantomhairpuller · 25/06/2013 15:06

I'd be more concerned that someone was getting in tbh. And I'm a fully fledged believer in all things woo.

Keep us posted Wink

Fragglewump · 25/06/2013 15:08

Elephant massacre is the weirdest by far!!?!?! Wtf!?!

bellasuewow · 25/06/2013 15:12

fascinating post, if it is a naughty ghostie then apparently you need to not be fearful, be authoritative, claim your space and point out to them firmly like you would to a child that this is now your house and they no longer live here and they need to stop fiddling with your things. I know how bonkers that sounds but may make you feel better. Or you could tell them to start paying the mortgage and if they are so good at moving stuff around then you expect the laundry to be done when you get back from work and they can clean those window's while they're at it. good luck x

GibberTheMonkey · 25/06/2013 15:17

Need a picture of the elephants for sure

NotQuiteWithItAtAll · 25/06/2013 15:33

Definitely marking my place for this one. How freaky. After the elephant incident, i would definitely be placing some cameras around the house. And then watch the recording behind my hands.

SodaStreamy · 25/06/2013 15:47

Oh Shock

Neither explaination sounds good does it.

For what it's worth I do believe in ghosts but loads don't.

Fakebook · 25/06/2013 15:57

I'd also like to see a picture of the elephants.

Take a bit of the red stuff and lick it.

Clearlymisunderstood · 25/06/2013 16:02

I really hope it is your DH messing with you! The other explanations are terrifying!

CUnexttuseday · 25/06/2013 16:04

place marking as very intrigued

MrsJohnHarrison · 25/06/2013 16:18

Def change locks and set up hidden cameras! Shock

Isildur · 25/06/2013 16:18

Well your house isn't haunted. If you had an actual, verifiable haunting, you'd be marking a turning point in human history, and make yourself an actual fortune.

What you probably have is dodgy plumbing/leaking pipes behind the walls, and either a practical joker for a family member, or a psycho with a spare set of keys. Or someone with shares in the local 'home security' business.

I suppose it's also possible that your mind is playing tricks on you.

valiumredhead · 25/06/2013 16:20

Call the police, someone has been in your house.

Flossiechops · 25/06/2013 16:24

Very scary indeed op!

ouryve · 25/06/2013 16:28

Tell DH that he needs to organise someone to change the locks. He'll find it easier to sop messing oyu about, if it is him.

ouryve · 25/06/2013 16:28

Stop. You. No, my keyboard isn't haunted, either, oddly enough.

mistlethrush · 25/06/2013 16:33

Have you got anything you can use to do a recording?

gaggiagirl · 25/06/2013 16:36

Does the red liquid smell of anything you have in your house? Cosmetic or food perhaps?
I am woo and that elephant thing has got a touch of Amityville about it but I would be more inclined to find a more logical explanation first.

TunipTheVegedude · 25/06/2013 16:37

Your house isn't haunted and Ouryve's suggestion makes sense.

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