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AIBU?

not often very angry but been talking to lovely girlfriend this afternoon.

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marriedinwhiteagain · 23/06/2013 22:22

She and her DH are the same age as us - 50+. Her DH has behaved disgracefully after 25 years of marriage. I have met the cuckold -she hasn't AIBU to call her the stumpy cunt. She is short - so cross, so very cross. The DC are 22, 19, 15 and 12. The stumpy c is 31 - 9 when their eldest was born. He is a monster dick btw - grrrrrrrrr and I'm not one of MNet's big swearers!!! [Angry]recurringm. Their eldest isn't the monster - red mist got in the way.

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HollyBerryBush · 23/06/2013 22:39

Who is short? And is it relevant?

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marriedinwhiteagain · 23/06/2013 22:39

Team Ed and RP have got it. Sorry - crossness made me inarticulate.

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ifyourehoppyandyouknowit · 23/06/2013 22:39

'led astray'? Really? Sure, he's a dick, but he wasn't lured away by some bewitching harlot, kicking and screaming all the way. Pretty sure he was a willing participant.

But yes, he is rather foolish and I feel sorry for your friend that she is going through this.

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tupuedes · 23/06/2013 22:40

Its not nice to insult people based on their height. Don't you think some people reading this might be "stumpy" also?

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pictish · 23/06/2013 22:40

Led astray...lol!

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RevoltingPeasant · 23/06/2013 22:41

Is he leaving your friend or just carrying on? Sounds like your poor friend is well out of it. How nasty for her.

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ProperStumped · 23/06/2013 22:43

Led astray? Confused Poor man Sad

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sweetestcup · 23/06/2013 22:43

led astray by a stumpy cunt

Oh its always some wiley woman's fault for leading some poor helpless man astray isnt it? Complete nonsense, no-one gets led astray like that - so he was unfaithful - he could have chose to respect his marriage vows. And your OP is incoherent nonsense to.

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SolidGoldBrass · 23/06/2013 22:44

YABU because it's none of your business what goes on in someone else's marriage, and calling someone a 'stumpy cunt' is childish.

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marriedinwhiteagain · 23/06/2013 22:45

Left - gone to a 2 bed flat with ow and her 6 and 3 year old. They have lovely weekends because the ow's DH has the DC. He's complaining because he can't buy a decent house for them until after both divorces.

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Alibabaandthe40nappies · 23/06/2013 22:45

Led astray? Hardly.

If you were privy to all info you might even find it wasn't the first affair he'd had. Aim your anger at him, not her.

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Branleuse · 23/06/2013 22:45

youve got to keep your eye on those stumpy cunts tbh

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ShotgunNotDoingThePans · 23/06/2013 22:45

Yes yabu to call this woman the stumpy cunt. Save your rage and name-calling for your poor friend's husband who is a married man and has done the dirty on his wife.

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ExcuseTypos · 23/06/2013 22:45

YANBU to be very cross about the situation, for your friend.

YABU in saying he was led astray. He's a grown up who made his own decisions.

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ShotgunNotDoingThePans · 23/06/2013 22:46

Would it be okay if she was 5' 10'' then?

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FeegleFion · 23/06/2013 22:47

A cunt is beautiful, warm and accommodating, regardless of height.

I'm really sorry this is happening to your friend OP but please understand this OW is not a succubus, ensnaring poor men who know no better.

They are both equally vile.

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elQuintoConyo · 23/06/2013 22:50

I'm a stumpy cunt with a cunty stump, I'm doubly offended Angry

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Tabliope · 23/06/2013 22:51

Well it obviously wasn't working with his wife for whatever reason. I couldn't get angry at someone else's husband though. I'd think him an arse and feel sorry for her, yes, but only they know all the details. He's left. If I was your friend I'd rather he'd buggered off as I wouldn't want him back after an affair. Her kids are all independent apart from the 12 year old. In a year or two she can have a snigger to herself that's he's probably still having to get up in the night with the OW's kids. That will definitely take the shine off things for him. I bet in a few months he'll try to come running back with his tail between his legs then she can have great satisfaction in telling him to bugger off. He's the loser here.

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marriedinwhiteagain · 23/06/2013 22:52

I know it's childish but I have loved them both for nearly 30 years. If ow were 5'10" she'd be a skinny streak of piss. Stop being reasonable (please) - you're supposed to be a bunch of vipers and I'm rarely U and rarely swear and I is cross !!!!

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AnyFucker · 23/06/2013 22:53

put the Wine down

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YonilyDevotedToYou · 23/06/2013 22:53

I am of diminutive stature. Should I be changing my NN to StumpyCunt? (Quite tempted, truth be told.)

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FeegleFion · 23/06/2013 22:57

Oh bless Married you sound like an amazingly loving and loyal friend.

You'll be a fantastic support to her through the tough times ahead. Flowers

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ChippingInWiredOnCoffee · 23/06/2013 22:57

How do you like the sound of ChippingInStumpyNotCunt? Grin

Utter utter bastard to do this to your friend and your friendship -it hurts huh :(

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TiggerWearsATriteSmile · 23/06/2013 22:58

Ehm. Ok

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dontmeanto · 23/06/2013 22:58

I can't stop laughing at the replies! (Sorry, OP)

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