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All these threads about horrible nasty anti-social noisy neighbours .

91 replies

marjproops · 08/06/2013 23:17

Theyre everywhere on MN.

but if there are so many why cant anything be done about them? apart from sending them all into space !!

How are they all seemingly getting away with it all?

no amount of calling 101/envioronmental/noise patrol people (?)/police etc etc etc. seems to work according to some of the posts.

Are the services scared of them or something? they just get away with it.

regarding noise-if therers a cutoff time why doesnt anyone stick to it if its the law?

or DIY stuff? or parking on drives/stealing things/throwing things, ive read dont know how many threads just today about them all.

cant ANYTHING be done? they seem to know they can get away with it and relish it.

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maddening · 29/06/2013 23:46

some of these nightmare neighbours seem beyond living in normal society - where on earth do you put someone who throws dog shit at their neighbours !

GameSetAndMatch · 05/07/2013 19:53

And get ready for the heatwave we'ere expecting, they come out in droves then with their beerscans, loudness, staying out at all hours and not giving a duck about anyone else.

one reason i hate the summer too.

ive already seen 2 gardens down a gazebo going up, i know what that means.

and its not to stop people enjoying themselves is it? its THEM not thinking of at least a compromise.

exoticfruits · 05/07/2013 20:17

Every time I see a property programme that says 'a good entertaining space' about the outside I want to shout-' no it is not- there are close neighbours.'

GameSetAndMatch · 05/07/2013 21:11

I would LOVE to be able to live in a totally detatched place in the middle of a field. Not glastonbury though !!

i really wish there was a law or something that 3 strikes and you're out, and pile them all up in one place where they can outblast each other to death!

and the rest can live in peace.

we really do need mumsnetville!

exoticfruits · 05/07/2013 23:01

Unfortunately a great many MNetters think it perfectly reasonable to play music in their garden.

GameSetAndMatch · 07/07/2013 19:09

yes and theres a thread in AIBU about garden speakers that some are rejoicing at. i HOPE they dont live in my street, we get enough with a few here already.

last night yet another party STARTING at 11pm.

GameSetAndMatch · 09/07/2013 19:01

and in this blasted hot weather their excuse for parties STARTING at 11pm every single weekend is that british summertime doesnt last long so theyll bloody well make the most of it and f*k everyone else.

so WE end up the anti-social ones.

GameSetAndMatch · 13/07/2013 21:25

even noise people said that because of this weather theres a lOT of late night loud parties goically i can f*off and let them carry on.

Yet another one this weekend JUST started. they dont finish till gone 5am. thats WELL after the cutoff point.

they think theyre in IbiZa or something?

the past FOUR weekends.

GameSetAndMatch · 13/07/2013 21:26

basically, not goically- huh?!?

and noise people not concerned that kids cant sleep, especially freaked out mentally disabled ones?

quoteunquote · 13/07/2013 22:16

Run for the local town / parish council with the one policy that you will tackle noise, if you are having a bad time, then an awful lot of other people will be also, and the ones that are the selfish shits are hardly likely to drag their bottoms out to vote, so you should get in.

Toadinthehole · 14/07/2013 02:46

I got the council to kick out a tenant. Unfortunately for most of you, it was in NZ, not the UK.

Before then, we had about a year of her letting to various ne'er-to-do-wells who got drunk , fought and urinated in the front garden. They threatened me and leered at DW through the window when she was breastfeeding. Once, some of them knocked on the door when DW and DD1 were by themselves and asked to use the phone. I don't like to think what would have happened had DW let them in. One neighbour had jewellery stolen, and another lost a bike. Most were too scared of them to admit to being troubled, and it ws left to DW and myself to complain. Constant nighttime parties, and probably drugs being dealt from the property.

By the Lord, we were happy when they all left.

At the same time, we got a new neighbour on the other side - a respectable professional 40 something woman without children. She appeared to like nothing better than holding naice wine parties in her garden, with music, until 1 o'clock. When I told her that she was waking DD1 up, and DW and I were getting quite exhausted from having our sleep disturbed, she just didn't see that she should refrain from having her naice parties. In the end, I resorted to yelling over the garden fence at midnight and spoiling her party.

I also called noise control plenty of times. Fuck you, Auckland City Council Noise Control for being so fucking useless.

We moved. New house - fine for a year and a half. Then we got a group of 20 year olds who smoked weed in the garden and fired up the stereo three nights a week. DD1, now 3, started saying "Fuck" because she heard it from over the fence so often. I remember on the day of her 4th birthday party praying that the neighbours wouldn't kick off with another party of their own, becuase they did so at any time. They grew marijuana under hydroponic lamps in the garage. Police not interested. Lucklily the landlady had given us her phone numbers inc cell phone. We distributed this round the street and got everyone to call her on party nights. She booted them out.

We moved again. Fine for 6 months, but then another bunch of ne'er-to-do-wells. I had to look up a copy of the land title to find out who the landlord was a company, and then the company register to find the director. Lucklily he was sympathetic and put a stop to the nonsense.

IMO this problem has got much worse since high-powered hi fi became cheap. The solution is actually quite simple though - stop obliging people to go through noise control. There is no reason why an aggrieved neighbour shouldn't be able to sue in the small claims court, and on receiving damages, obtain a portion of the tenants' bond , which the tenant should then be obliged to top up for the landlord. THe problem at present is that unless one is a trained lawyer or has money to burn, one is obliged to ask the council for help.

Toadinthehole · 14/07/2013 02:49

Which makes me ask - does anyone know of a cheap device that records decibel levels?

Next door has had decent tenants for the last couple of years - but now we have the bucks, we are putting in double glazing.

Toadinthehole · 14/07/2013 02:50

Oh, and what quoteunquote said.

GameSetAndMatch · 14/07/2013 18:34

wish SOMEONE in council would. i would if i could but im disabled and care for disabled and its a fulltime job.

FFS, Toad even there it happens? is there nowhere sacred in the world?

theres been going on here all afternoon, with screaming-not happy joyful kiddie noise, but SCREAMING like banshees, every other garden having a bbq (beats me why in this heat people want to stand in front of a fire but hey ho), bottles thrown into my garden, (not just mine probably) even a dirty nappy, dogs barking, shouting people, and LOUD ibiza (xcaose thats where they think they are) ''music'' blaring. one of them a loud karaoke machine so just imagine.

ok, its a hot day, no ones working, but still. does it have to be so loud and crude? and the language too. and i can hear children hearing that?

weve had to come in, windows shut, trying to make white noise with a fan, and this weathers set to continue for a while so will the excuses.

Toadinthehole · 15/07/2013 07:26

Game

NZ house are normally built out of wood or other similar substances (due to earthquakes) and so don't shut out the noise that well. Plus, the pleasant climate means people spend far more time in the garden.. making lots of noise.

Also, Kiwi + drink = aggro, even more so than drunk Brits.

GameSetAndMatch · 19/07/2013 19:39

agree with toad about the hi-fi tstuff. since ghetto blasters in the 80's booming out stuff even in streets, ''personal'' walkmans that everyone else could hear anyway, and now with super deluxe all surround sound things, ipads/ipods/phones with louder speakers.

surprised night clubs still exist, everyone had night AND day clubs in their own back gardens and houses/flats.

its awful.

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