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aibu to hate my grandma?

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joanna1990marie · 02/06/2013 02:44

So, she is 68 years old, and up to a point she was what I believed to be a loving, kind and respectable human being, I have recently found out that she stood there and watched while her ex husband beat up my mum as a child! She also told my mum when she was a little girl that she had cancer...she didn't btw and I find myself do utterly disgusted by this woman, I've also found out she snogged a 16!!! Yes 16 year old in a local club about a year ago, once again infront of my mum! And then to top it off has had a 3some with the disgustingly smelly carwash fellas from Albania. I had to stay with her for a week once as me and my partner had a falling out and she had a hamster....bear with Me.... She used to put ham in its cage and fruit and hamsters won't eat meat so it was off and smelling, she had one of her friends around and blamed the smell on me! She talks about me behind my back and is one of them people who if she is not involved in a conversation will bark out a laugh, just to make people look at her! She chases around foreign men in their 20's, I am utterly repulsed by this woman! I unfriended her on fb....I know, sounds childish...just because she was messaging me EVERYDAY pretending to be this sweet little grandma when I know what a mucky slag she is, she found out that I'd deleted her because she spies on my profile every day and apparently she cried, and tbh I just dont care, and now she's hassling family members asking them what she's done to upset me! Sorry this is stupid long....almost forgot that when I was 20 weeks pregnant, we were all having a family meal at my mum's, I started to have a nap as I was struggling with exhaustion, she started putting this weird teddy in my face while I was sleeping because she'd gotten so pissed at the meal, so I politely told her to fuck off, she then proceeded to drink even more tequila...no one else was drinking... And then me my sister and mum were in a conversation when she decided she was gunna fall down the stairs and piss herself on the floor, she was pretending to be unconscious, no one saw her fall, just heard banging, I thought if shes really injured she'll want an ambulance as she was still feigning unconsciousness, low and behold as soon as I mentioned phoning 999 she made a miraculous recovery! AIBU???? Dear god it feels good to rant!

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crashdoll · 02/06/2013 18:09

Maybe suggest she takes up some hobbies?

HairyGrotter · 02/06/2013 19:44

My grandma is long dead, your grandma sounds a riot. She's welcome into the fold of my family anytime! Hang on to your knickers, granny, it's gonna be an awesome ride!

Salmotrutta · 02/06/2013 19:54

Oh my.

Ashoething · 02/06/2013 20:03
Hmm
joanna0211marie · 02/06/2013 20:55

So you'd like your mum to be treated the way mine was?

bugdem · 02/06/2013 21:24

YANBU to dislike your granny for the way she treated your mum.
YABU to judge anyone's sexual habits even if they are different to your own!

ThisWayForCrazy · 02/06/2013 21:34

Budgem said it all for me.

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