OK...this is probably going to sound really petty, but me and DH want to know if this woman is being odd, or if we're reading too much into it. This is quite long...I've tried to include all I can think of.
DH takes our dog for a walk over a local field every morning. As I'm sure most dog walkers know, if you go to the same place every day, you get to know the other people who do the same. He's become quite friendly with some of them, but this one woman is behaving rather strangely.
First of all, he really liked her. They got on well and had a laugh, passed small talk to kill a bit of time in the mornings. He mentioned about me and my hair adventures and she was really interested to get some tips on how to do her own (I make dread extensions etc). So I let her friend me on Facebook (stupid I know).
Anyway as time went on, he chatted to more and more people. We moved back to my home-town so DH didn't really know anyone, and we both liked the fact he now had a few people to talk to etc. However, this woman (I'll call her Gill) started to act really weird when he talked to other people, especially women. She'd storm off in a huff, or make stupid jokes saying things like "hahaaa you don't need ME any more now do you, you talk to this person and that person". She's got a long term boyfriend so he just put it down to her being a bit highly strung.
A lot of the people over the park have exchanged numbers, including DH and this woman (it happened before she started being odd). The exchanged the odd friend type text (he always shows me them), usually nothing more than a "You going to the park today? Maybe see you there" type stuff. But recently she's been texting him a lot. She even texted him while we were on holiday recently, and she knew we were away. Some of the texts are a bit odd..."Are you OK?" just out of nowhere for no reason. Not blatantly odd...but just not in context and for no reason. She often seems really put out if she doesn't get his attention, or if he talks to other people. She's say things like "ooh you and X are getting along really well...I think she fancies you!" "Are you sure nothing's happened between you and X" etc Just quite inappropriate really
The weirdest thing though, is the hair...this is where it may sound petty. She wanted to make and install some dreads, so she asked me a load of advice, I was happy to oblige. She gave it a go and put dreads in. Seemed very interested in what DH though, but we just put it down to him having experience and knowing what mine were like...but now she's moving to the realms of really copying me. Then She commented on my shaved bits (HEAD bits...minds out of the gutter ladies). She then shaved the side of her head, just like mine...then she bleached it and cut if short...just like mine...then she started talking about dying it blue...just like mine.
It's just getting weird now. DH has changed the time he's been going to the park to avoid her, and has been ignoring her texts. It's all gone quiet for a while, but is it just us, or is she being weird? Even all his other "dog-walker" friends have been ribbing him a bit and calling her his "stalker"
I worry I'm reading too much into it...sorry that sounds really silly written down. I trust DH implicitly...I just wanted to know if anyone would be a bit weirded out.