I dont know her parents, they dont know me, they dont know she is at my house (they cant noone has ever checked on her) she is 6 and crosses the road on her own to get here. She is rude and often mean to my children at which point I tell her its time to go home, but I feel mean telling her she cant come. She once came round when we were doing something and I said we arent playing today, she stood in my garden in the rain for 5 mins, I felt sorry for her so let her in. She is often playing out the front on her own, I think her parents chuck her out. She used my very expensive new make up. But is it horrible to tell her I dont want her here, she is banned from both the neighbours houses who have kids becasue her behaviour is so bad. My kids have never been to her house, we have a few houses on the street that the kids are in and out of but it is resiprical and I know all the parents. My kids said she had asked them back to hers the other day and I said no becasue I dont know (or trust) her parents and they do not cross the road without an adult. Oh my kids have now said they dont want her here as she is not kind to them.