We've all been ill this past week, with only DD1 escaping the lurgy and now being ill has set off my Fibromyalgia. All week i have dealt with 2 ill dcs whilst feeling like shit myself whereas DH has taken to his bed at regular intervals because he was 'dying'. His work can be flexible and allows him to do this but it would have been nice for him to say at some point in the week "I'm free for a few hours love, you go and have a rest and i'll see to them"
Now i'm in bed with legs that don't work and he is having to hold the fort on his own. DCs are being little sods and running rings round him from what i can hear 
. Lots of bickering/screaming/tantrums. Welcome to my world Pal.
Am i unreasonable to be glad that he is having a small taste of how bloody hard it can be at times?