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to feel sorry for Amanda Holden re her article about Mumsnet

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GrowSomeCress · 06/04/2013 22:36

www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-2305111/Why-I-hate-negative-judgmental-Mumsnet--Amanda-Holden-Britains-Got-Talent-star-accuses-site-fuelling-mothers-guilt.html

Seems to be newly posted.

I think sometimes it's forgotten that famous people are actually real people with genuine feelings.

Don't agree with her about mumsnet just being negative and judgemental all the time though, really excellent support available on here.

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LittleBearPad · 22/04/2013 15:25

Xenia - do you think the Law Society is pointless regulation or the ICAEW. They support and regulate professional qualifications. Perhaps this is unnecessary and the free market should determine who should be a lawyer or an accountant. Or is child care just not as important.

BigBoobiedBertha · 22/04/2013 16:29

If I am going to hand over the majority of the daytime child care to somebody else I at least want to know they have the intelligence to pass a few exams and know the theory behind the work they do. I don't want to deprive my children of my intelligence, qualifications and life experience and leave them with somebody who can't teach them half of what I could. What would be the point in that. (I say this partly tongue in cheek but not entirely).

LittleBearPad makes a good point about professional qualifications. I would add to the examples, teachers. Whilst I am all for people with a natural talent becoming teachers, I still wouldn't want somebody without training to teach my children in the long term. Apart from anything else a qualification give us a yard stick to judge potential by and provides both sides to objective measure of the standards that need to be met.

And I thought the proper rich all had Norland nannies with dinky little hats and nice white gloves.

exoticfruits · 22/04/2013 17:48

If I had lots of money I can't think of a single reason for not having a properly qualified nanny. I don't see it as any different from having a properly qualified teacher or properly qualified lawyer etc.
I dare say that people could 'pick up' taking out gall bladder- I would prefer to see the proof on paper!
I can't think of anything more precious to me than my DCs, of course I want proof. Lots of people are very good at promoting themselves,but hopeless in practice.

exoticfruits · 22/04/2013 17:50

It is in effect saying 'anyone can look after a small child'- I don't think it true at all.

Bessie123 · 22/04/2013 18:49

I had a Norland nanny when I was little. She was brilliant.

I still prefer to do it myself now though Grin

exoticfruits · 22/04/2013 19:03

I wouldn't have an approved plumber or electrician etc that wasn't on a register, so I certainly wouldn't have an unregistered nanny, without qualifications. If I was rich I would have the very best, but in reality I would still go for doing it myself.

exoticfruits · 22/04/2013 19:22

Sorry-I intended to say I wouldn't have a plumber, electrician who wasn't 'approved and registered'.
The rich wouldn't dream of having a lawyer, doctor without paper qualifications-they wouldn't even HAVE an unqualified vet for their animals so I can't see why on earth they wouldn't bother with qualifications for childcare. It is madness to pay more attention to the cat than a DC!

cleoowen · 22/04/2013 19:32

Can someone,post,the link to her thread please, want to read it?

BigBoobiedBertha · 23/04/2013 00:33

I suspect Xenia's lack of respect for the qualifications of nannies and childminders is because she doesn't actually think what they do is worthwhile.

Hiring somebody with qualifications cuts the chances of employing somebody who simply isn't up to the job.

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