Thing is, in my family, there was already distrust of the MMR 'link' to Autism long before the Wakefield report came out, as my Dbro had a serious reaction to his first MMR, regressed afterwards, and was dxd with Autism all before the report came out.
(My Dbro is 22 now, and was put on a waiting list for dx at 5)
My DD was just the age to have the MMR as the report came out. As I had already decided, based on my Dbro, NOT to give her the MMR, obviously the Wakefield report didn't help that decision.
However, when DD was 4yo, we actually had an outbreak of measles locally to us. I had DS1 as a newborn, too young to immunise, and I was scared of possible complications from measles for both of them.
As DD had already been noted by the Paed to have 'Autistic traits', her Autism was already evident by this point, so I thought long and hard, and decided that it had been coincidental that my Dbro had regressed at the same time as he had his first MMR jab.
So I decided to get it done for DD. DD had her first MMR jab at 4y3mo, and her booster jab at 5y6mo.
DD has Autism, but it wasn't caused by the MMR, and I don't think it was made worse either.
I still believed that the vaccination schedule they had at the time was too much of an assault on the immune system, given immune issues in the family, so I decided to split the vaccinations and do them, but on a much slower timescale.
DS1 had his first MMR at 3yo, and his booster at 4y6mo. At the time, I had no issues with his development. It's only now he's almost 11yo that issues are becoming apparent. (More Aspie than classic Autism).
DS2 had obvious immune issues AND Autistic traits from a very young age. I slowed his vaccination schedule down LOTS compared to normal, because his development was already slower than normal.
Every time he had ANY immunisation, his development regressed.
I got his first MMR done when he was 4y9mo, just before he started school, and he had his booster at 5y5mo.
He had a regression after each one.
He has 'Autistic traits' and is now, at 9y3mo, on a waiting list for a full dx.
DS3 is currently showing multiple Autistic traits at 2y2mo, and us being assessed for Autism next month. He still hasn't had his first MMR, and I am in no hurry to give it to him in case he regresses, as his development is severely delayed anyway.
If it gets to him starting school, I will ensure that he has had his first MMR just before he goes to school, and his booster a year to 18 months later.
I still feel, despite the discreditation of the Wakefield report, that in DC's with a family history of Autism / gut issues / immune issues, that the current vaccination schedule is too much too soon.
I also feel that I would give a vaccination against measles far sooner if it was available affordable as a single jab.
I would be far happier giving my DC's single jabs NOT all at once than the MMR.
I think I was in the last year group at school that wasn't given the MMR and had separate jabs, as I know I had a rubella jab at 14, whereas my friends a year younger didn't.
There have been no studies done comparing Autism rates in the vaccinated population as compared to Autism rates in the unvaccinated population. You need to ask yourself why...
However, in the case of my DC's, the MMR did NOT 'cause' their Autism. It DID, though, cause a regression each time in my DS2, despite the far later vaccination age. I fear for my DS3 for this reason.
(DD and DS1 have different fathers to DS2 & DS3, who have the same father as each other, but different to the older two. DD's Autism presents slightly differently to DS2 & DS3's.)
I fully believe that my DC's would have Autism with or without the MMR, but I DO believe that in SOME cases of DC's with certain presentations of Autistic behaviours, the MMR can cause regressions...