there is no such thing as slut vibes? I have shared many a bed with male friends and yes sometimes they have tried it on (I did once, result!) for 30 seconds, because sometimes they and you need to test the ground, that said in the pub and the knee test normally did it for me (PM me with £10 postal order for the secret of the knee test ;) )
unless you are unlucky and it did happen to friends of mine where the male in question did not take a no, to mean no, and me once, but the fuck wit when I said I would scream for help, (big guy and big girl in opposite rooms) laughed and said like they will think you are serious! I wasn't worried by him I got the feeling he thought I was playing hard to get, I shouted "ANDY" he came in and male was ejected from the building.
his mate's night was ruined as my friend was more than happy with his company and was rightly embarrassed by the goings on and left with him, she went out with his mate for a long time, he was never seen again.
I know it could be deemed as dangerous to share a bed but in the main apart from that one issue, never a problem, most men are decent, your friends are the sluts (sadly I can't find a male equivalent of that!)
I have helped a very good friend through a rape and it was horrific what happened to her, her rapist got a sentence wait for it ... burglary, he took her camera, took photos throughout but he had given her rohypnol this was 15 years ago, and in the summing up she and the jury had to listen to the 5 previous times he had been in court for rape and let off, this was the first time he was sentenced and as I say it was for the theft of her camera. she didn't even know him, he was a barman in a pub who spiked her orange juice, she is a scientist and was not drinking that night as her experiment was needing checking in the early hours.
happily she is now married, unhappily her family didn't know about the rape (her now DH does), hence me being involved, she had been waiting on an arranged marriage, but the rape scuppered that, she was cut up about it (for the record no one in her family apart from her sister knows, but she couldn't engage as she was so fucked up by it (not surprisingly) and had a great excuse for her sister to get married first as she was dong a PHD)
for the record my friend is Christian, and from 3rd generation from India, I don't want any Muslim bashing on this thread.