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Original poster

to think my friends shouldn't be propositioning me for sex??

165 replies

JilllyArmeen · 04/04/2013 21:59

went out with my friend at the weekend and stayed over as i have before one of my oldest and best friends so not weird to share a bed but he tried it on! i forgave him as we had alot to drink and some drugs iand i don't want to loose my friend.
today another friend asks me if i want to be his fwb!
im i jjust giving off slut vibes or what??

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Tee2072 · 04/04/2013 22:51

I have no words for this thread...

Kneedeepindaisies · 04/04/2013 22:52

If only Donald hadn't been deleted Sad

Original poster
JilllyArmeen · 04/04/2013 22:52

abby i take your point but there was nothing on offer to take.hence my asking does it mean im giving off vibes
and yes i am jilly armeen to the 1st guy_ i always went for his friends and not for him`
i don't know what a troll sorry

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Lucyellensmum95 · 04/04/2013 22:53

No no Hoho, its only the OP who is on drugs, well not exactly, it was her first time, but thanks to me she is now going to say no!

I personally think you can have FWB that were FBs before they were Fs. Not the other way around

waltermittymissus · 04/04/2013 22:54

Ah, classic Donald - getting off his trolley on all sorts of drugs and the propositioning his slutty grown up friends for sex.

Lucyellensmum95 · 04/04/2013 22:54

I dont think it means you are giving off vibes, its just that you have some questionable friends

Bluelightsandsirens · 04/04/2013 22:57

Why are all the deleted posts still white?

Are they just typed or actually deleted by real life MNHQ?

ginhag · 04/04/2013 22:58

Oh.

How LOVELY.

I haven't dipped into a thread that has made me smile so much for AGES.

(I am sad that this post won't be deleted though)

WorraLiberty · 04/04/2013 22:59

So you went to sleep in your Uncle Ned...having taken some furry rugs and your china plate wanted a Donald Duck?

Ooh is that you me Mary Pawpins?

Original poster
JilllyArmeen · 04/04/2013 22:59

thanks Maryz. most of those are animal names the ones that convey the sme meaning are no more acceptable than slut from a feminist point of view.

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ginhag · 04/04/2013 23:01

Cos you like TOTALLY have a feminist point of view. TOTALLY.

ginhag · 04/04/2013 23:02

Maryz.

Clitoromaniac Grin

ToomuchWaternotWine · 04/04/2013 23:02

Ooh maryz i shall endeavour to call someone a "saucebox" tomorrow, in a flippant John Inman stylee, it's my new favourite word.

Original poster
JilllyArmeen · 04/04/2013 23:03

yes ginhag. obvs that is part of the reason i didn't Donald duck my best mate

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ginhag · 04/04/2013 23:03

Maryz you are a GOLDBRICK (I have no idea what I am saying)

ginhag · 04/04/2013 23:04

Why does that make you a feminist? As opposed to, umm, someone that just didn't fancy their best mate?

Kneedeepindaisies · 04/04/2013 23:04

waiter on Providence Confused

Maryz · 04/04/2013 23:04

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Lucyellensmum95 · 04/04/2013 23:05

I quite liked "waiter on providence" "strumpet" and "stattern"

OP, maybe "flibbertygibbet" is more acceptable :) It is a word that tends to be used by disapproving maiden aunts!

I think Maryz has cut and paste from somewhere!

Seriously though - if your "friends" are getting you drunk and high on drugs and then propositioning you for sex - i think the only vibes you are giving off are those of someone gullible and vulnerable and that you should cross them off your list of friends and steer well clear of them. Without informed consent it is rape.

ginhag · 04/04/2013 23:05

Feminists are allowed to fuck people y'know.

Maryz · 04/04/2013 23:05

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

sjupes · 04/04/2013 23:05
AnyFucker · 04/04/2013 23:05

uteromaniac ? Brilliant !

I wonder if Donald and Sharon are an item

Original poster
JilllyArmeen · 04/04/2013 23:06

it isn't that which makes me a feminist. it is objecting to being treated like a slattern procastinator that makes me a feminist. among other things

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alwayslateforwork · 04/04/2013 23:07

You sheep dog, you.

Nope. Not doing it for me.

Well, I suppose it blows the whole 'feminism is too white middle aged middle class and it's over' thing out of the water, then.

But in all my lifelong days I have never heard a feminist wondering on a chat forum whether they were giving off slut vibes.

And I'm no spring chicken.

If you are a feminist, I will eat my hat.