This could be long, so sorry in advance.
Feel utterly fed up and down in the dumps.
Am currently on maternity leave after having DD4, aged 6 months. Going back to work in June. DH works 4 shifts per week, 2 evenings, and 2 days. Before I went on mat leave, he assured me that he wouldn't leave me to do all of the housework, cooking etc. This has gone out of the window. He does do the school run, but won't do much else, as he uses the excuse that he 'works for a living'. He spends his non-working time either playing World of Warcraft, or watching TV whilst lying in bed. One morning per week he plays badminton.
Today, I felt as though it was the final straw. The DCs were falling out, DD2 has had a tummy bug so have done 6 loads of washing in 2 days, inbetween breastfeeding and looking after the baby, I've worked my backside off to stop the house looking like a shithole. The baby started crying, wanting a cuddle, I was in the kitchen, washing up after lunch. His lunch was still sitting on the table, uneaten, as he was in the middle of a 'raid'. He continued to ignore the baby, I saw red, and turned the PC off at the base. He went ballistic. I told him that I'm sick of clearing up around him, and being ignored for up to seven hours per day, and that he needs to choose between World of Warcraft and our marriage.
DH then stormed out of the house, and drove off, leaving me with the DCs. He knew full well that I was going to leave in 10 minutes to go to a breastfeeding support group at our surestart centre. Going to such groups has been a bit of a lifeline for me, as I actually get some conversation, and it's the only social life I have these days.
2 hours later, he was back. He made a half-hearted attempt at making up, by showing me wine he'd bought for our trip away with family at the end of the week. I told him I wasn't sure if I'd be going (considering staying home with baby). This send him upstairs in another mood, and he went to work without saying goodbye.
So WIBU in turning off the PC? For the ultimatum? For brushing off his non-apology?
AIBU?
Wibu to have given DH an ultimatum over WOW?
Moominlandmidwinter · 25/03/2013 19:24
" He did wind me up a bit by saying that I have long enough over the week to get the housework done myself, and that if breastfeeding DD is taking so much time, I should consider stopping."
If he really believes that, then he needs to prove to you that it can be done. He needs to take a week off work and show you how it's done. You might want to make it easy for him, you could go away for the week with DC4, so all he'd have to manage would be three DC and all the housework. You would look forward to coming back to a spotless well-oiled machine of a household 
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The breastfeeding comment is beyond fuckwittery however.
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I had one like this. I got rid. Swore he'd change time and time again and didn't. Last straw was the neighbour waiting on my doorstep saying
"your son nearly drowned this afternoon in my pool. He hadn't noticed he'd gone & didn't notice I was stood with a wet boy at the door either"
He took the all entitled view that 'he worked full time' too. Obviously my 20hrs a week was chopped liver but that's a different thread 
Playstation not WOW but it needs nipping in the bud now before you end up where I was..divorced.
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