Hello a newbie here and after some advice. I have a ds who I had with a pervious partner. Broke up moved on, started life as a single mum. Met a new fella all good then I become ill, so had ssp at work. I was on housing benefit, wtc etc as a single mum. Anyways due to me being ill new dp was adamant that I moved in with him, into his mortgaged house. We talked about money, I told him that if I moved in with him my benefits would stop as we would be a proper family. No problem he said, I love you, want to marry you, etc. Now however he's gone back on everything he said money wise. Said he would not support me and ds, I don't expect anything other then basic things covered, I don't expect to have any free money, but I am unable to currently work and my ex work have refused to pay me ssp now( whole other post) so I have £70 per week coming in and of course I have outgoings. I am trying my hardest to think "well" and trying to be positive but now I'm stuck with no money at all, dp only gets himself food shopping, etc so it's pretty much like we are living apart money wise under the same roof, although I'm now left with no income. Ex-p isn't currently paying maintenance-going though CSA. I sold everything to move in with dp so now own pretty much nothing, I've had to take my car off the road as I can't afford to run it currently. But dp has just spent £12,000 cash on a new car and is living the life of luxury while I can't to go food shopping.
Am I right to feel pissed off him? If I had stayed in my place things would be tight but I'd still have money. My friends have said he had done me over big time, and that he should support ESP as it was his wish for me to move in with him. He's a high earner by the way. It's not as if I didn't say anything before I moved in. In all other ways he is lovely and still says I want to marry you
Aibu to think he should support me?