to think the accusation of being a pushy parent

[bangwhizz]

is too easy an answer for inadequacies and unfairness in services for children.

nope- because no matter how adequate and fair services were to be, someone would still want their child to have more, be better, come first, have the best whatever.....

it is human nature, and those who push hardest often get more - though often at a cost to their reputation....