...to think large people do not have fat heads...

[Boomerwang]

...so why is it I can't find a decent tshirt that doesn't have a huge, off-the-shoulder round neck that goes down to the top of my bra and shows off the straps?

New Look, H&M I'm looking at you. Also KappAhl, Ahlens and Lindex.

My large baby has a fat head, I need bigger opening for him it's like he has to go through birth everytime I put a vest/jumper on him poor baby!

Boomerwang have you tried Yours? They have the style of top you describe but plenty with nice collars or v necks. I love Yours.

I second Yours, they're great.

boomer I have also noticed that the basic jersey shirts from h&m are cut much lower than last year.
really annoys me. even when wearing a very low cut vest it shows.

Yanbu. So annoying!

ooh I like that website, but it's a bit on the expensive side for me. I suppose you get what you pay for :(

Yours always has great offers and a seemingly never ending sale on. I bought a nice gypsy top for £1.60 yesterday.

Some do. Some don't.

Some manufacturers are just lazy and scale up.

Others cut things differently depending on size.