Can anyone give me an idea of the sort of shape/type of bra I need to look for?
As I've said, in my head I've got small/no boobs. But my measurements are 36/42.
I do seem to have a lot of bulge by my armpits though, which I now know should be in my bra. I usually wear padded bras to give me a better shape but they gape at the top (in a 38B - which is why I can't imagine a 36E doing a thing for me).
Looking at my boobs objectively, I think they are wide with a lot of tissue towards the armpit. They are kind of triangular? That sounds weird doesn't it!?
I'm thinking balcony bras might help me to push them up from the bottom to give some cleavage??
Any thoughts? I'm off shopping in a bit, but there aren't any decent bra shops with me so I'm going to just try a few in Asda to start with to see what the fit is like.
BTW, what is it that causes red marks round your back? I always get sore red welts in a 36, which is why I'm in a 38 - so I'm a bit reticent to go down a backsize as I find a 36 so uncomfortable. Are the red marks more to do with the cups not being big enough?