Daughter age 9 still wets/soils her knickers and is going to a residential trip in June

[bengal38]

My daughter is 9 years old and since she was 4 years old has been wetting and soiling her knickers. Have taken her to the Drs recently (and in the past a few times) and there is no problem.

She says she can't be bothered to go toilet. When she has friend round/goes to a friend she will go toilet for a wee but not for a poo which results in the soiled underwear.

She is going away in June for a 2 night trip to a residential trip and I am worried she will be wetting/soiling her underwear. I have spoken to her about this and she tells me not to worry. Can't mention to the teachers either as it is really embarrassing.

Anyone have any ideas please?

[JamieandtheMagicTorch]

Bengal

Have you been to get a referral?

[annh]

Take your daughter back to the doctor, demand a referral and get this treated! I have now looked at your thread from July, where you posted and then disappeared, and things are getting worse, not better. Then you said your daughter would go to the toilet at school but the problems were at home. Now she is also wetting herself at school. Why are you not pushing for this to be sorted out? Are you expecting your poor 9 year old to do it on her own?