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maidmarian2012 · 21/02/2013 21:45

Yesterday I quit FB. I was really, really upset, as in my news feed I was shocked to see someone had shared a vile photo of a tiny baby being strangled. I have noticed also recently other graphic images doing the rounds. Has anyone else come across such horrible things? Or do I have idiot friends?? Am I being a drama Queen?? Its a shame, I like to use FB to keep in contact with DP and share the latest news about my DS etc, I just dont want to see such upsetting things. Apologies if there are other threads in this subject.

Has anyone else quit FB for this reason??

What if my children had have seen these images accidentally??

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MissyMooandherBeaverofSteel · 21/02/2013 21:47

I don't do FB anymore for this reason and many many others. I just email photos and things out to the people who want them and keep in touch by phone. Life is much better for it tbh.

RattyRoland · 21/02/2013 21:48

Yanbu, I've defriended people who 'share' the horrific images. I would close my fb as well, except I use it to keep in contact with distant friends.

DoctorAnge · 21/02/2013 21:49

Good God how awful :( haven't noticed anything like that

curlywurlycremeegg · 21/02/2013 21:50

I think you need to selectively reduce your friends rather than quit. I don't get "shared" images like that, butthen I am selective about who I have as a FB friend. On the other hand part ofme feel that FB has a respnsibility to ensure that inappropriate iamges are not part of their site, yet they are well known for being more worried about a photo of a breastfeeding infant than of a porngraphic image, so maybe I should place more consideration on the fact that I use a site with this ethos.

HollyBerryBush · 21/02/2013 21:52

I suppose it depends really. I have a lot of highly politically motivated friends who always seem to be on a crusade of some sort - so I do get a lot of this stuff. No denying it goes on in the world and raising awareness of certain regimes is a good thing.

On the other hand I have one or two who incessantly post all that cartoon shit which does my head in totally. I tend to block those sites, you've seen one fluffy cat, you've seen them all.

I'm not adverse to chucking a few news links in on my feed either.

HeadfirstForHalos · 21/02/2013 21:53

A few people on mine posted the tortured dog one that was doing the rounds. I blocked their posts from my wall, but a braver mutual friend posted a status bollocking them for it.

It was the same story last week with the "John Venables" photos. It could have been anybody, some people are so dim and will repost anything without thought.

YANBU.

OHforDUCKScake · 21/02/2013 21:58

I saw the image of the video of the tiny baby. I saw the comments of how sick i was.

I darent look, I always wondered what happened to that baby.

Thats fucking horrific. Horrific.

OHforDUCKScake · 21/02/2013 22:01

To add though, I went on a deleting rampage because of various pictures. One was a 23 week aborted baby, with my 'friends' speil about how her daughter was born 3 weeks later than that ban abortion etc. after many Pms telling her to fuck off, me included, she then deleted it and claimed she accidentally posted it.

Another one was a new born baby in a street bin. Posted by another 'friend' who claimed it was a virus. I deleted that cunt too.

And another of a baby burnt and swollen from head to toe. Fucking horrific. I deleted that bastard too.

BeerTricksPotter · 21/02/2013 22:04

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MoppingMummy · 21/02/2013 22:06

Can these images be reported???

jinsymaw · 21/02/2013 22:07

Joined Facebook for about 23 hours before realising it was a cv for some to say how fantastically well their kids are doing at swimming, gymnastics etc.Meh! Every intelligent ladee knows that we are only interested really in our own little darlings!

This though is horrendous and should not be allowed. I feel like screaming when these images are created and circulated. Shut it all down. I wish there was a way of making a stand against these websites as weekly there are suicides and now there are images of children and animals being tortured. Saw a good drama about the futures and technology called dark mirrors on ch 4, it kinda relates to this thread.

DoctorAnge · 21/02/2013 22:09

Surely these pictures are fake I mean why? Just why?

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jinsymaw · 21/02/2013 22:28

You're quite right beer but have to say it was best friend who moved away who was the one who boasted, loud and proud. I'm happy for everyone to get out there and say 'yea, life is hoop de do.' Yet there are ways of communicating it that say accomplishment, accomplishment go team family x!

KobayashiMaru · 21/02/2013 22:31

It's not FB, its the people on it. You see this shit because the people you have chosen to connect with are showing it

If you will have the kind of tossers on your friends list who like that shit, what do you think will happen? Hmm

jinsymaw · 21/02/2013 22:34

Oops sugar, I meant to that there are ways of not saying accomplishment, accomplishment. Oh farts, I've messed it right up. Think I just have terrible fear of rejecting friend's requests(people I hardly know) and regurgitating the pasts ' memories!

HollyBerryBush · 21/02/2013 22:38

I dont accept any old sort on FB - more often than not I decline or ignore requests.

Had one from a work collegue - she approached me the following day with the usual 'I sent you a request and you havent accepted' - umm that would be because you are not my friend just someone I pass and say hello to in the corridor, why would I let you into my life? we wont mention her profile banner was of her scantily dressed and dangling upside down on a pole dancing night out Judgy? moi? oh yes!

MrsTerryPratchett · 21/02/2013 22:40

I don't have this kind of nonsense. I do, however, have people who

  1. repost innate bollocks like Share if you hate child abuse. Because lots of people LOVE child abuse Hmm

  2. share thinly veiled Daily Fail crap about veterans which, for some reason, have to mention illegal immigrants Hmm again

  3. one twunt who thinks that the word 'rape' can be used about football defeats. He apologised when I gave him a bollocking, the others are defriended.

ChairmanWow · 21/02/2013 22:55

Those sound absolutely horrific. Click the 'report abuse' button and unfriend them. There is no justifiable reason for sharing images like that. I'm pretty sickened just reading what they are so god knows how those of you who've seen them are feeling.

maidmarian2012 · 21/02/2013 22:58

Thanks for your posts everyone, Im glad its not just me who ends up seeing these posts. The person who shared the baby picture is actually a highly intelligent articulate woman and im shocked at her for posting it.

I also come across a lot of "All them immigrants are stealing our jobs....."

"Asians get massive houses given...."

Half baked political rantings, Im glad iv sacked it off.

MrsTerryPratchett I agree re the comment you made about "Like if you hate child abuse" So if I dont like, I must be all for it. Angry

Im going to spend more time on MN. Its much more grown up.

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FloatyFlo · 21/02/2013 22:58

Yep. I'm am totally with you op.

Got sick to death of seeing terrible images plastered all over the place.

The ones that bothered me were ones such as 'Every like this gets, means another punch to the person who did this...' and alongside would be a horrible photo of a beaten and bruised toddler.

Or another example are the cancer ones 'Like this if you hate cancer'.

Ok, for one rhing 'liking' on Facebook is doing nothing for the fight against cancer. How about putting 'donate a pound to cancer reasearch, if you' so on and so on.

Secondly, if I dont 'like' it, does that mean I like cancer?! I just dont get the point of it!

That aside, the image of a poor child laying in a hospital bed, clearly ill and going through chemo, (which tend to be the sort that accompany this ridiculous pages), has come from somewhere else on the internet, from an archive or a hospital website. Being misused by some weirdo that gets a kick from posting them on Facebook.

Its not about raising awareness, those images and pages haven't been created by the family of sais child or cancer reasearch themselves. Its just sad people with nothing better to do than find the most distressing image they can and show it to others.

But, ya know the worst thing, people fall for it.

People like my auntie. Kind lovely, mother of three. Thinking that by posting all these photos and slogans on my newsfeed, is her doing a good thing, and contributing to that million pounds that that charity will receive from Facebook if it gains however million bloody likes.

As you can probably tell, this darker side of Facebook (if you will), has been an issue for me for sometime. So I took off my account. I dont want to be associated with the haywire morals of Facebook. I dont believe in censorship, I think its a sticky road to go down. But when photos of a mother breastfeeding are taken down, yet the widely controversial 'dead baby jokes' and similar vulgarities are allowed to stay, im not sure where faveabook prioties and ethics lie.

And my how liberating it was to be off it. I dont miss at all.

A week later my sister was sat on Facebook, and up popped that extremely distressing photo of the baby you talk about op. Real or not, that's not what Facebook was supposes to be about.

FloatyFlo · 21/02/2013 23:01

Life is much better for it tbh

Yup. This ^ exactly.

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maidmarian2012 · 21/02/2013 23:11

*FloatyFlo" youre taking words out of my mouth!! What if my liitle boy had seen the baby pic? He would have been scared to death.

Like the other posters have said, theres no justification for sharing things like that.

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Naysa · 21/02/2013 23:11

I'm not sensitive in the slightest but a girl I vaguely know commented on a picture of another page and it appeared on my news feed.

It was the most disgusting horrific image I've ever seen and I'm not being dramatic but when I saw it I started sweating because I was so freaked out, I feel mentally scarred by itSad

I reported the picture and the page to facebook and they were removes, so there must have been a few complaints.

Makes me sick some of the stuff that gets posted. Sad

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