to think that having high expectations for childbirth and breast feeding contributes to PND?

[Alizzle]

just wondering as my DH seems to think so and I'm beginning to think he's right.

Delurking to say I am so pleased you updated Alizzle. I'm so glad you sought help, you sounded so desperately unhappy.

Oh, thanks so much for the update OP - I'm so glad that things are improving for you, and that you bothered to let us know..! All the very best to you and your DS

I have read some research that definitely says so. You kind of feel like a failure as a mother right from the start. Doesn't set you up with a great relationship (for the early days) with your dc, either.

Oh dear, just read the thread! Apologies and congrats op!