listening to grill graham on radio 2, perhaps mumsnet should be similar, op gives gist of problem/quandry

[youfhearted]

replies are given and op doesnt need to come back to face the music justify themselves

I hadn't realised that people were required to come back to face the music, as such. But it's irritating when an OP goes completely silent. Not least because the whole point of the forum is to have a debate on it. There are other places on the internet if all you want is a series of FAQs answered.

refuses to justify my thread

You haven't been asked to justify it. But if you don't want comments, why post it in the first place? Or are you so bored that all you can think to do is launch attention seeking missiles?

fucking hell, whats with the aggro pande. ?
t;was just an idle thought,
is that no allowed

No aggression. Just wonder why you are so defensive.

i am not - so there - like i said, it was an idle thought,
nver mnd ay.
this abosulstely answers the question re not coming back to post

(at Pande's posts, not the OP)