Copped off with a man half my age last night, is that Horribly Wrong?

[SolidGoldBrass]

Or AIBU to be boasting about it ? Oh BTW I am 48, he was 25 so put your pitchforks down...

not wrong unless he's under 18...

Course not!

did he have firm buttocks?

don't know why I asked that, of COURSE he did

As long as he was good looking as well, then go ahead and boast! Where did you meet? (Hoping you're not going to say work!!)

Way to go!

He was very cute. Met in a fetish club... I had in fact spent about the first hour of the evening feeling growly and sorry for myself and wondering whether I had in fact crossed the line to 'invisible' older woman and should go home and buy a tartan shopping trolley and one of those plastic rain hats.

I'm really envious! Do you have that glow?!

Someone might have a fetish for tartan shopping trolleys and plastic rain hats.

I'm torn between thinking wow, bet he was hot and eeeeuuuuwww.... my best mates kid is 23 and I just can't imagine it

Lucky!

Get the trolley and rain hat, it is a fetish club, you might get even more entusiastic action!

As long as he is over the age of consent there is nothing horribly wrong.

Sometimes horribly wrong can just feel so good! Congrats on your pulling power!

Wants to be SGB's new best friend and go clubbing with her next weekend

It is, indeed, very wrong. The poor lamb is probably seeking therapy as I type. You should be deeply ashamed.

Fair play

PS...shopping trolleys don't have to be tartan. I have a very trendy pink one, with large blue flowers on it.

Maybe YABU about admitting to the fettish club (what is a fettish club?). I'm a bit shocked about "copping off with a stranger" but then you lot know I'm an old prude .

YANBU to be pleased about pulling a 25 year old though. Well done you. Hope it was worth it and gave you a flush of confidence and inner warmth.

Goes to pour another glass of wine and quietly think about what SGB has been getting up to. Bloody hell.

'Copped off'...really....?

You had sex with someone and you both enjoyed it.
He was well above the legal limit, I wonder if he knew how old you were, or cared?
What's not to like?

Yanbu you are now a cougar :)

SolidBrass You need to share your pulling trips, you can't keep that power all to yourself

Definitely a bit of a 'glow' today, or at least a lot of reminiscent smirking. I also realised that I had really missed going clubbing - after I lost my reviews column I stopped bothering. BUt now I'm writing a novel about BDSM and clubs, I can call it research .

That is all.

It is Horribly Wrong. Horribly. I'm retching just thinking about it.

Now does 'copping off' mean still just mean snogging, or has the meaning evolved into something more sordid these days?

What are clubs like now?

I haven't been in one for ten years - bloody hell, that's a looong time.