to tell my colleague ive got feelings for him?

[emilysheart]

I've realised i have got feelings for someone i work with.he's with someone but he has made it known to me that he's not happy in the relationship and i have had signal from him in the past that maybe he likes me. he is moving to another department soon so if i tell him now an he laughs in my face at least i won't have to face him on a daily basis. if i don't say anything i think i might regret it

Erm .... ok emily no need to be so angry. Just trying to give you advice.

I read the first and last page. And all you were doing was going on about her cheating.

But what I said still stands, even if you don't do anything and they break up, you might still be the rebound girl.

Good luck.

Emily, seriously, I doubt his poor dp/dw has the time to cheat with 3 children.

Look at the facts, he has 3 children & is in a relationship. He has been giving you hints that he likes you, you haven't said what exactly, so I'll just say flirting. Whatever their relationship history, he's not behaving well is he?

I would take what he says about his relationship with a pinch of salt.

I do think you sound naive & vulnerable.

If he was a decent person, he would have the respect for the mother of his children to either end the relationship or work at it, not flirt with women at work (while presumably she's at home looking after their children?).

He sounds dodgy. I'd stay well clear.