Again...
So she asks about toilet training. I say we stopped due to x y z.
She says , well I thought you were a bit obsessive about it when I came to stay last time ( she had arrived on day two of who's a clever girl then stage as dd had self started and we were encouraging her to continue).
I say 'excuse me?' She says yes, your dp was shouting at her that he wouldn't let her off the toilet until she did a poo. Now I would like to be clear here: this did NOT happen. Mommy dearest is a confabulator extraordinaire to compensate for very bad hearing which she denies. Cloud f'in cuckoo land as dp puts it.
Anyway, she disagrees there may be another version of reality where that did not happen so I told her to drop the subject as we were not going to agree on it and after about 5 or 6 warnings that she was still on the subject, I killed the call.
So AIBU?