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AIBU?

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Original poster

to think men who can't cook (much) aren't much good in the sack?

34 replies

DiamondDoris · 01/01/2013 17:25

Just my experience though. Maybe I'll let off the ones who aren't that good at cooking but enjoy food. There does seem to be a corrolation (sp?) or maybe I'm imagining it.

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StickEmUp · 01/01/2013 17:30

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Feminine · 01/01/2013 17:32

YABU

Mine can only make rice.

In the other department ...Wink

MargeySimpson · 01/01/2013 17:32

I agree YABU. DP can't cook, but....

happyinherts · 01/01/2013 17:32

Does the alternative experience hold true for you too OP? Men who CAN cook are VERY good in the sack?

StuntGirl · 01/01/2013 17:33

YA, quite obviously, BU.

BrandonFlowersHoHoHo · 01/01/2013 17:35

Dh can cook and is a-fucking-mazing in the bedroom. Win win...Just saying.

BrandonFlowersHoHoHo · 01/01/2013 17:35

Dh can cook and is a-fucking-mazing in the bedroom. Win win...Just saying.

PelvicFloorClenchReminder · 01/01/2013 17:35

Clearly some thorough research is needed here. Does anyone have the phone number of James from the GBBO?

No, no, it's for SCIENCE!

saintmerryweather · 01/01/2013 17:35

my ex could cook amd was utterly shit in bed

ArfAPandaTreacle · 01/01/2013 17:36

YABU mine is a shit cook.

Great in bed.

Original poster
DiamondDoris · 01/01/2013 17:36

Maybe I'm hallucinating, let's see if anyone agrees... I thought I was being scientific.

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NettoHoHoHoSuperstar · 01/01/2013 17:37

My ex cant's cook, when we were together was a really fussy eater, but was amazing in bed.
He cooks a bit now, and is much less fussy, still great in bed last time I shagged him.

KentuckyFriedChildren · 01/01/2013 17:38

Dh could burn cornflakes but the man is amazing in bed. Would be lovely if he could cook though...

Original poster
DiamondDoris · 01/01/2013 17:40

The ones who could cook were all good in bed, the ones who couldn't were shite. Not going into details but they lacked imagination, passion and were lazy lovers.

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BigShinyBaubles · 01/01/2013 17:42

I totally agree OP.
my OH is useless in both areas.

Booyhoo · 01/01/2013 17:43

YABU

you'll probably find that people who 'cant' cook have just never bothered to learn and so are also too lazy in bed to put in any effort.

why is this just about men btw?

magimedi88 · 01/01/2013 17:43

I wouldn't be going to bed with a man who couldn't cook so can't comment. Cooking, IMO, is a life skill & I'd have no respect for a man who couldn't cook - therefore no shagging!

TheCountessOlenska · 01/01/2013 17:43

I'm going to give him "improving" in both categories Wink

dubbada · 01/01/2013 17:45

oh terrible cook but best in bed great reson to be married to him

brighthair · 01/01/2013 17:45

I'm banned from cooking, he does it all Grin and is rather good at it WinkWink

dubbada · 01/01/2013 17:45

reason

PrincessAnastasia · 01/01/2013 17:45

I dated a man who loved cooking and was good at it.

Shit in bed though.

BigBoPeep · 01/01/2013 17:46

sorry to burst your bubble - DH also barely cooks but is amazing in bed Grin

Clumsyoaf · 01/01/2013 17:48

I would need to test drive Gordon Ramsay to be able to give you an informed decision Wink

countrykitten · 01/01/2013 17:58

Win win from this corner!

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