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to go and knock on my neighbours door...

71 replies

Spuddybean · 30/12/2012 19:28

and ask if they are coming round?

Saw neighbours last week and arranged for them to come over tonight for drinks and food. They said they'd be here between 6-7 and they haven't turned up.

I have done really nice food and got in some cava. i am sitting here in a dress and have done my make up and i feel like such a loser.

OP posts:
Jemma1111 · 30/12/2012 19:30

I would pop round as they may have genuinely forgot. However, if they're not apologetic then I would be pissed off .

MarilynValentine · 30/12/2012 19:31

Hmm rude of them!

I'd give it ten minutes then call. And I'd expect an apology for their tardiness.

ladyfirenze · 30/12/2012 19:31

hold fire! wait till eight....

Spuddybean · 30/12/2012 19:31

dp's gone round!

OP posts:
ladyfirenze · 30/12/2012 19:32

and open the cava!

Wishfulmakeupping · 30/12/2012 19:32

Yep agree wait till 8 Before saying anything

juniperdewdrop · 30/12/2012 19:33

Have they been to yours before? This once happened to me. Except the other way round. Neighbours invited us and then weren't in? I wasn't keen to go so there was some relief. Very rude to be so late though.

trapclap · 30/12/2012 19:36

What did they say?

Twinklestarstwinklestars · 30/12/2012 19:38

Maybe they just run late?

Cuddlyrunner · 30/12/2012 19:39

Waiting for an update!

MaryChristmaZEverybody · 30/12/2012 19:40

So at least you get to enjoy a nice meal Smile

crazynanna · 30/12/2012 19:41

...and you can neck all the cava for yourself....Wink

SledYuleCated · 30/12/2012 19:42

Hoping the lack of update is a good sign!

BluelightsAndSirens · 30/12/2012 19:45

Op would have been back having a rant by now so it looks like they forgot or assumed it was an open, pop over if you want type of invite.

Itsafreefuckingcuntry · 30/12/2012 20:44

Still waiting for an update.....(taps foot impatiently)

Shutupanddrive · 30/12/2012 20:45

Well?

FredFredGeorge · 30/12/2012 20:47

I reckon they turned up and the OP is now too busy with the wife swapping cava to update us...

EuphemiaInExcelsis · 30/12/2012 20:58

They've been kidnapped!

Alisvolatpropiis · 30/12/2012 21:02

Soooo...assuming the neighbours did come round?

Iggly · 30/12/2012 21:03

Nosy bump

ShipwreckedUnderTheTree · 30/12/2012 21:08

Does she not realise we are all here and wondering??!

Jemma1111 · 30/12/2012 21:10

I can't go to bed tonight unless I get an update Wink

Itsafreefuckingcuntry · 30/12/2012 21:11

Well, that's so bloody rude. A room full of nosy fuckers concerned mumsnetters abandoned!

shesariver · 30/12/2012 21:11

Shamelessly being nosey

DecAndAnt · 30/12/2012 21:13

I reckon they are there now, wonder why they were so late though ?