An adult family member keeps asking her to add her partner as a friend on FB. DD is 12 and I keep a close eye on the FB and who her friends are. This was the condition we came to when I allowed her to have a FB page so young. I don't mind school friends chatting but I don't really know this man and I don't want her connecting to any adult this way. I just think that it gives the wrong message to her about what is acceptable on line in terms of communicating with others, especially little known adults. I have deleted some of her friends because of some of the posts they have put on, anything too sexual and the person is 'unfriended'. Ii don't mind her having the account but I do think that she needs to learn what is safe on line and what is not before she can make these judgements for herself.