Last year my exp went out 2 days before Christmas and bought a Wii and guitar hero for me and ds (3 at the time). It was bought for him no doubt about it but we had a bit of fun with it, turned out to be an ok present and he'd spent a lot of money on it. (got a ball of wool and a bag of sweets for my birthday ffs lol). My dad and his partner also got me some beautiful presents and had obviously spent a lot of money on them. My ex took the wii and sold it when he left me. My dad stopped speaking to me after a really horrific argument that caused a lot of upset. This year i expected no gifts as adults do not buy for each other (mums side) however i woke up to 4 presents from my gorgeous ds (as bought by grandma lol), a pinwheel filled with sweets, a big coffee mug, a candle and 3 pairs of socks. Went to my mums for dinner and had the best day! Sod the wii and lovely gifts I would MUCH rather wake up to my beautiful boy and a pinwheel and to have lovely, happy people around me. Hope that makes sense, just makes me feel all warm and fuzzy and had to share 
Merry Christmas all!!