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to expect DH to see to my "bedroom needs" while I'm pregnant?

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HormoneHell · 23/12/2012 08:50

I'm pregnant with our third and this pregnancy my hormones have gone crazy. My libido is unrecognisable. I've gone from a once every ten 10 days kind of person to needing sex constantly. It's driving me crazy.

When I wake in the morning the only cure for my nausea is an orgasm but as I'm feeling sick at that point I can't move much so DH has kindly been starting the day with, er, oral favours. Then I find myself thinking of nothing but sex all day long. It's torture and on return from work, as soon as the kids are in bed, I jump DH for a long session of anything he pleases. I also need it to get to sleep later each night and to return to sleep after each pregnancy induced wee wake (once or twice a night).

So far DH has been utterly obliging but we are about to go to his parents for Christmas and he says there can be nothing while there. I'm actually in a panic and have been crying all morning. I feel utterly out of control. Like I have a physical illness he says he won't treat.

AIBU to ask to cut down how long we are away for or am I an hormonal lunatic who needs to deny herself? I fear the latter.

This is not a wind up it's really serious and totally alien to my normal life.

OP posts:
oldraver · 23/02/2013 13:39

LMAO @ mains operated vibe (is there such a thing?)

HormoneHell · 23/02/2013 14:29

Hmmm, sounds like things might not change before delivery. I guess I just need to get more inventive. I do now have a vibrator at least (not mains operated though - what a clever idea).

After I had my previous DCs I went right off sex for months, in fact I don't think I let DH near me for about 4 or 5 months. Thats going to be quite a shock for us all I think.

What strange and powerful things hormones are.

And for those asking how christmas went: it was OK, DH relented once actually confronted with a sex crazed naked woman lying next to him at night.

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Catchingmockingbirds · 23/02/2013 14:38

Have you got a rampant rabbit? I'd strongly suggest investing in one, they look a bit intimidating but they're great.

ShoutyHead · 23/02/2013 14:45

I was insatiable when I was pregnant. I used to wake up DH in the middle of the night to sort me out Blush he thought all his Christmases had come at once.

The dreams I had were unbelievable, I used to orgasm in my sleep. Glad it happens to other people too.

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