I'm really sick of having to justify myself. I work, study (to try and get a better) job, job hunt, look after my children, and my mum.
I do not smoke, drink or take drugs, don't have Sky TV, go on holiday. So why do I have to listen to people going on at me for being irresponsible and selfish for spending money on things I never spend money on.
When you get a letter making you redundant and your p45 there isn't a clause in them saying 'you are no longer a human being'. So why are you suddenly regarded by so many as sub-human?