To be quite pissed of with shop assistant commenting on my spots.

[Jingleyjubblies]

Every month I get two or three spots on my face. Nothing disgusting and nothing too obvious. Or so I thought. Today I tried on a red jumper and the shop assistant told me I shouldn't buy it because it "showed up all the spots on my face". Now I feel like a greasy, spotty teenager.

Better than her saying they match your spots

No i agree not her place to comment

I'd have complained to the manager in your position. Veyr rude of the staff member.

It's Off not Of just so you know.

I would have rubbed my face on here!

PessaryPedant!

Very rude and insensitive of the shop assistant. I wouldn't go there again.

Dear God noo! Please tell me where you live so I can avoid this woman! She'd have a field day with me when I get my period!

I know it's off and not of! I pressed the create button without checking the title line. Maybe you are the shop assistant Pessary - you have a similar disregard for manners ...

Join the club jing when I asked if I could try a dress on the shop assistant said "OK, but the changing rooms are quite small." I was only a size 16 FFS!

What a bitch! Not sure how I would have responded but it would have upset me too.

No way - how rude!!

@ mynew

I was wanting to try on a pair of wedding shoes in Jimmy Choo and I asked to see a pair of shoes that were on display in my size. the shop assistant said: "oh no, those are for people with thin feet" WTF? Don't even know what would be classed as a fat foot. Think she just didn't want to go down the stairs to the store room which was located down a long flight of stairs. She sounded really unfit as she was panting every time she came up them.

Write an email of complaint to the company.

Embellish how upset you are.

They will probably send you a vouchers as way of an apology.

I was in our local corner shop. I'm always polite to the owners who work the till, say hi, ask how they are. One day I did this and we had our usual chat then he pointed to a big spot on my face (that I was very self consious about) and said "what happened to you". I could have died of embarrassment. I looked at him and said "nothing, it's a spot". I was horrified and have been less friendly since then because I don't want similar thing to happen again!

Wow, that was really really rude! I would have been pissed off and felt awful. Definitely complain!

On the flip side, I have a skin condition which leaves me with a red patch on my cheek. I'm very self conscious about it and always wonder what people must think of it.

Nobody ever asks...but the other day I met DHs aunty for the first time and she said ""What's that?" and I was actually really pleased to be able to explain...then I felt it was out and she wouldn't wonder.

She had thought it was a bruise. She's the type of person who speaks her mind and I often wish more people would mention it tbh then I would not feel so self conscious.

"could i speak to your manager please " then wait while she lifts her jaw off the floor and runs off to panic if the toilets.

sympathies OP, i get monthly breakouts too. this month i got a massive painful red spot under my EYE! i think it's from my new glasses, it was right where they meet my cheek. i felt so self conscious until it got big enough to pop and hide with concealer. not before EXp had seen it though. massive it was