in not knowing if I should tell my friend or not?

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I am torn on this!

Ex "D"P came to see DD the other day and whilst she was playing away he pulled me to one side and said that he had saw my friend....on a porn site! He said it was definitely her and she was under the category Ex Girlfriends!

Do I tell her or is ignorance bliss? I mean she might know already but can't imagine her not telling me as we are really quite close!

On one hand she has a right to know, on the other she is happy at the moment in her current relationship and I really don't want to tell her and for her to be unhappy/stressed?!

Opinions please!

TELL HER FFS

I would tell her in case.she doesn't know - she could.contact the site and request it be taken down..

Tell her!

Not heard of anyone in this situation before and hope she can get herself taken off website.

I would check it out, and then tell her.

Yes you absolutely have to tell her, imagine how mortified you would be if it were you and your close friend had heard your pictures were on a porn site but not told you.

Do you mean you think and ex boyfriend has posted her on there?

You must tell

so they're nudey pics that she posed for? Or a home-made film?

Are you kidding me? Your ex may be dodgy and there may be loads of reasons why he is ex, but if theres is a chance that it is true,you got to tell her. It may be nothing about her current relationship but it is (possibly)public now and you need to support her and not hide.

Yes I think her ex has done it, she used to tell me how was in to some pretty unusual fetishes and that he clearly had an obsession with porn.

I was going to tell her I think I just needed reassurance that it was the right thing to do! I am a worrier at the best of times.

Well in that case yes, please tell her.

Nancy it is pictures.

And definitely her.

Right will phone her now to arrange a coffee and go from there.

Tell her as soon as you can.

Oh dear. you are doing the right thing but in for a difficult evening. good luck. let us know?