Son Hit by Car Whilst at School

[vivalavida]

Several weeks ago my 12 year old son was hit by a car whilst at school. The school is split across two sites with a rarely used single track road running through the middle. This is classed as a public highway although as I say very rarely used as it is not a through road.
My son was crossing at a blind spot with other children going from one lesson to another. They were unsupervised and this is normal practice. As my son stepped out of the blind spot to see if the road was clear, he was hit by young driver in her car. The impact was enough for him to smash the windscreen and he was taken to hospital.
Very luckily he walked away with only major bruising.
After a week off school and two weeks off sport he is now almost physically recovered, however we have now received contact from the driver asking for damages.
There were no direct witnesses to the accident apart from the driver's partner who was also in the car and my son's friend who is also 12.
It is still very difficult to ascertain who is ultimately at fault and we are reluctant to enter into a conversation without advice first.
The other issue is that the school seem non-plussed about the fact that our son has been injured whilst in their care, regardless of who's fault the accident was.
I really don't want to jeopardise his education by falling out with the school as he is happy there and doing well, however, if we do pay then we are admitting liability and may leave ourselves open to future claims.
Any advice would be greatfully received.

[cumfy]

Beaver, yes, definitely should be able to stop within range of vision.

Could have been a pram or pushchair for all the driver knew.

[PastalaFestivista]

Am wondering where the OP is? First time poster or name-changer, one post on Monday lunchtime and pfft!

[KittyFane1]

Arbitrary:Kitty: the driver is at fault because she was driving on a road through a school while children were moving between classes
I've read the OP again and you're right, it isn't a through road and the driver should have been more careful. Many split site schools are separated by roads with busy traffic.

[nipersvest]

this thread is the op's one and only post, no mention of name changing. am now wondering if they've not come back as it's a reverse thread, as in the op is actually the person driving the car.

aibu seems an odd topic to post about this in.

[Rudolphstolemycarrots]

she was driving through the grounds of a school, she should have anticipated that there would be children crossing the road to get from one school building to another school building.

Driver should have been driving slower in order to be able to stop faster on blind corner.

[flow4]

I wondered that too nipersvest...

[dayshiftdoris]

Just to add...

4 yrs ago I was in an accident in the car - hit by another driver not stopping for a roundabout so hit about 25-30mph and car would have rolled had it not been for a traffic island bollard. His fault and convicted of a driving offence

The county council contacted ME for costs of damages to the bollard...

I called them to say I was not at fault and was told that they pursue the person who hit the street furniture not the person at fault. I asked what happens if it is a cyclist or pedestrian with no insurance who hits said furniture and causes damage and was told that the policy was the same regardless.
Infact her words were 'If you damage OUR property in an accident then it is YOUR responsibility to cover the cost of damage regardless of how you were traveling'.

After that NOTHING surprises me anymore with regards to traffic accidents... such a fixation on blame and recouping costs that all common sense and common decency goes out of the window!

A school on a split site is different to a college due to age of pupils. I would say that school need to get involved as actually if you were 'playing the game' you could actually claim for damages from them as they allow pupils to cross there and were responsible for him at that point.

They should have a risk assessment in place and surprised they have children crossing unsupervised.

[RedHelenB]

Did you pay it?

[cumfy]

Hope OP's getting legal advice.

[bunchamunchycrunchycarrots]

dayshiftdoris, you should have simply forwarded the letter onto your insurer and they'd have supplied them with the details of the responsible driver's insurance. I hope you didn't pay them.

[dayshiftdoris]

I didn't pay it and had no intention...
I rang them because the letter did not tell me to forward it to my insurance company and it was worded in such a way (it mentioned 'fault') that I thought they had been told that I was the person who caused the accident.

As it was I was informed that it was worded that way as I was at 'fault' - I had damaged the council's property and no they did not care that someone else pushed me into it.

I asked if they ever check if there is a serious injury or death involved before they send out that letter and was told 'no'.

The insurer rang me when they got the letter and asked if I had informed the council that the other driver was at fault and when I explained she was at the attitude.

That all said - my son and I still say that bollard is 'ours'