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I've just had a go at someone....

181 replies

Cantheyreportme · 04/12/2012 17:38

A women has been giving my friend glaring looks whenever she sees her. This women walks or drives past my friends house on the school run. This has been going on for a couple of years if and when she sees her.

I saw her earlier walking down the estate, as i was coming home, I stopped my car and got out and called her on it.

Was IBU I sticking up for my friend?

OP posts:
GnocchiGnocchiWhosThere · 04/12/2012 18:08

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AlienRefluxLooksLikeSnow · 04/12/2012 18:11

bups and hairy you have made my day!

OP, are you 12?? If this has been going on years, and your 'mate' hasn't felt the urge to 'call her on it' Why the actual fuck did you think you should?
Just asking :)

Alisvolatpropiis · 04/12/2012 18:11

Grin @ Lynette

Cantheyreportme · 04/12/2012 18:12

Well done to akaemmafrost and Alisvolatpropiis it is a reverse I fucking fuming btw.

I am evil eyes women as someone said up thread.

Well I can't tell you just how much MNetters have helped me tonight, though I suspect I've got more advice to come!

OP posts:
SuePurblyFeltYourPresents · 04/12/2012 18:14

what is the actual point?
I am so confused.

HairyGrotter · 04/12/2012 18:15

You should've nutted the cunt right between the eyes.

Was she one of those common folk? They are very unsavoury, did she have a dog and a pink pram?

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 04/12/2012 18:15

Canthey

I am sorry this has happened to you but it clearly says more about the person who confronted you than it does about you.

You could try the Travis Bickle approach linked to above but that may cause a few problems further down the line. Xmas Wink

MincePiesAddict · 04/12/2012 18:16

In that case OP...

I expect she has too much time on her hands... I have a neighbour like this, I just ignore her now as she loves a bit of Jeremy-Kyle-style drama.

P.S. But I have to know, have you been giving evil looks or not?

rubberducky24 · 04/12/2012 18:16

ok so if you are evil eyes woman - can I ask why you are giving this lady glaring looks? Did the random stranger have a point in having a pop at you?

TuftyFinch · 04/12/2012 18:17

Were you driving a silver Ford Focus?

SantaIAmSoFuckingRock · 04/12/2012 18:19

why are you giving evil looks to someone for years?do you fancy her? that's how they do it in primary schools. you are in primary school right?

Alisvolatpropiis · 04/12/2012 18:21

I feel quite pleased with myself OP Grin

This woman is obviously a fruit loop. I mean,that's exactly the kind of way 13 year olds do!

Out of interest,are you giving anyone dirty looks or do you just have one of those faces (it's okay,I have one of them too Grin)?

GrimAndHumourlessAndEven · 04/12/2012 18:23

what happened after the convo

did you stand in front of the pram, blocking her way?

I would have found you very aggressive and quite frightening, tbf

ARE you?

LadyKatherine · 04/12/2012 18:24

In that case, why have you been giving her mate dodgy looks for the last couple of years?

BupcakesAndCunting · 04/12/2012 18:25

"You should've nutted the cunt right between the eyes."

I have one of those faces, too. I like it. It's useful for warding off the twats.

GrimAndHumourlessAndEven · 04/12/2012 18:25

aha, a reverse

how scary for you

but why do you give the evils to someone? If you've fallen out or whatever, just ignore, blank them

CheerfulYank · 04/12/2012 18:26

I want to know more, immediately.

FellatioBellsOn · 04/12/2012 18:27

Oh I see! A RAIBU! I was just about to castigate you for being an ASBO style lunatic. Phew. You brought back horrible memories of me being 13 and helpless at the hands of big fat Tracy McDonagh who was 15 and wanted ANY excuse to beat me up (including my allegedly giving her 'dirty looks' Hmm Like I would !!!! She was older, about three stone heavier, rough as a badger's arse and a real hard nut Shock) when the truth is she was jealous of me because I got off with the boy she fancied.

YANBU.

TuftyFinch · 04/12/2012 18:27

I think your mate's mate had been giving the evils to your mate so her mate decided to give the stares to your friend and you've obviously been giving the evils to you. Can you not all make up down at the Gala?

WildWoodFlower · 04/12/2012 18:28

Did you punch her lights out?

GrimAndHumourlessAndEven · 04/12/2012 18:28

I mean, giving the evils for TWO years, what did she do? shit in your dinner?

SuePurblyFeltYourPresents · 04/12/2012 18:28
FellatioBellsOn · 04/12/2012 18:28

I definitely have one of 'those' faces.

TuftyFinch · 04/12/2012 18:31

Whoops didn't read to the end. Sorry Blush
She's clearly from the school of 'don't even dare to glance my way or I'll count it as dissing me'.
Maybe start a campaign of smiling and waving at everyone. Or give her a very wide berth.

SantyClaws · 04/12/2012 18:31

whichever woman you are OP you are stark raving bonkers

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