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Original poster

I've just had a go at someone....

181 replies

Cantheyreportme · 04/12/2012 17:38

A women has been giving my friend glaring looks whenever she sees her. This women walks or drives past my friends house on the school run. This has been going on for a couple of years if and when she sees her.

I saw her earlier walking down the estate, as i was coming home, I stopped my car and got out and called her on it.

Was IBU I sticking up for my friend?

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3b1g · 04/12/2012 17:50

Please can someone link to the original thread that this is the reverse of? Or should it be 'of which this is the reverse'? Oh, you know what I mean.

Original poster
Cantheyreportme · 04/12/2012 17:50

She knows which street I live in. Kids at same school.

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Frontpaw · 04/12/2012 17:51

Reverse thread? I just thought wine o'clock had come early.

HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 04/12/2012 17:51

I'm confused. Was there more than one woman??

TessGoesDirectToBethlehem · 04/12/2012 17:51

I thought she didn't know you Confused

HairyGrotter · 04/12/2012 17:51

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ENormaSnob · 04/12/2012 17:52

You sound like a right arse hole tbh.

No reasonable adult would behave like that.

I hope she reports you for threatening behaviour.

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 04/12/2012 17:53

You didn't take this approach did you?

Original poster
Cantheyreportme · 04/12/2012 17:53

She doesn't know my name. We have never spoke.

I wanted to help my friend, but I think I've gone about it wrong.

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BupcakesAndCunting · 04/12/2012 17:53

AHEM OP asking the woman "what u lookin at????"

Sparklingbrook · 04/12/2012 17:53

Was there one woman or women?

LynetteScavo · 04/12/2012 17:54

So a woman glares at your friend, so you see her walking down the road, stop your car, get out and confront her.OK.......

YUBU, aggressive, and a loon.

Alisvolatpropiis · 04/12/2012 17:54

You think you went about it wrong? Grin

DontForgetTheLightAlesLawrence · 04/12/2012 17:54

Report you for what though? Asking her a question? There must be more to this than meets the eye.

Confused
chrismissymoomoomee · 04/12/2012 17:55

Help your friend avoid someone looking at her?

Suggest she walks about with her eyes closed or wears a paper bag on her head or she could stay indoors forever more.

TessGoesDirectToBethlehem · 04/12/2012 17:55

What else did you do?

SuePurblyFeltYourPresents · 04/12/2012 17:55

I may report you. For questioning with intent and confusion.

Original poster
Cantheyreportme · 04/12/2012 17:57

Look I trying to set this out in my head that's all, least I'm questionning my actions.

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NatashaBee · 04/12/2012 17:57

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LaCiccolina · 04/12/2012 17:57

How old are you? You sound about 16?!

Don't tell me, she dissed ya innit by not respectin ya blud?

Honestly you sound completely bats. Is she now going to round up her posse in return? Are we in little Britain????

vintageviolets · 04/12/2012 17:57

Did she bog you out? Grin

KenLeeeeeee · 04/12/2012 17:58

Are you in Scotland?

Original poster
Cantheyreportme · 04/12/2012 17:58

I'm scared she will report me to the police for having a go at her.

I'm ashamed to say she had her baby in her pram. She had not picked her other one up.

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Alisvolatpropiis · 04/12/2012 17:59

OP are you 13? This is all very juvenile.

Sparklingbrook · 04/12/2012 17:59

So why did you do it?