A few months ago my boyfriend came up with the idea of us going to America on holiday next year. We talked about it and because of my work commitments the only time I'd be able to go in next March. Doesn't give us much time but financially it's not a problem, it's just the planning and organisation we need to get moving with.
Anyway he brought it up periodically (as did I) with new ideas and suggestions as to what we should do whilst over there. He'd done a bit of homework and looked into flights etc so I told DS what we were planning - he's really excited.
However, 2 months on and nothing has been booked or even organised properly. It's November now - 4 months until March.
I brought it up with him a few nights ago and asked if he still wanted to go, he said he did but has just been too busy to look into it. I told him time was ticking and we need to get a move on with it - he agreed and asked me to look up visa/hotels and he'd look up flights/villa. I agreed.
I spent the night doing my part of the deal - days later I asked if he'd looked up anything - he replied "not yet, not had the time".
I'm getting pissed off with it now. Would it be unreasonable to give him until the end of November to do SOMETHING or just book a holiday for me and the kids without him?
We don't live together and finances are totally separate if it makes a difference.