To think you should stay out of other people's bedrooms

[Alligatorpie]

pil's were just visiting ( for 10 days) and I lost track of the times FIL came into my bedroom. He normally has a problem with boundaries, and after being with dh for 15 years, i am used to it.

Either I was in there, or the dc's were, so to my knowledge he doesn't go in there alone, he doesn't snoop around, he just talks to whoever is in there.

But I would never go into another adults bedroom - we stayed at pil's house for six weeks and I don't think I ever went in their bedroom.

AIBU to think you should respect some spaces in other people's houses? Or is this normal behavior? and no , I didn't confront him.

HappyHalloween, you brought up arse licking, I merely pointed to a thread devoted to a range of anal pleasure. There you go, pumpkin.

That isn't what you did, Vixcyn

Please, I am bored of this already. Perhaps you would not get your feelings hurt if you did not make accusations of ARSE LICKING.

She said that there was a thread about arse fucking which might be up your alley. Seeing as you had made that puerile comment about arse licking I'm surprised you found it that " jarring".

At no point did she suggest getting anally fucked or sexual violence would "sort you out "

That's what your suggesting.

To be honest i am pretty shocked at the words getting put into people's mouths on this thread in the interests of scoring cheap points.

My feelings are not hurt, Vixcyn

I am simply pointing out to you that you are now trying to re-write your named personal attack on me (bitter, twisted, in need of an arse fucking) as being on a par with a general complaint by me of arselicking by un-named posters upthread

stop trying to minimise what you said

We were discussing this issue Halloween and you decided to lower the tone and become personal.

So don't get all affronted when someone responds in kind

Right I'm out now.

This is descending into a really horrible vile thread full of false accusations.

hhmf you seem to be putting words into people's mouths, misquoting and creating issues and angles that were not in question. That doesn't create a very good impression of you...

Exactly, Pickles. No where did I suggest Happy should have anal violence brought upon her.
HappyHalloween, clearly this is your issue not mine. You are upset you were called on you offensive term ARESE LICKING.

well, beardy one, to use a well-worn cliche you would say that, wouldn't you

Oops..ARSE LICKING...see term is so offensive to me, I cannot even type it correctly..

I disagree, Vixcyn, I think other people are getting disproportionately upset by the relatively mild accusation of arse licking made in general about what has occurred on this thread

which, to me, suggests I was right

Why would I say that? Justify your comment please rather than making ambiguous statements.

Clearly, there are troubled people with agendas to push through specious arguments. I am off too.

No, you're taking flak for what you're doing on this thread,I've already been taking flak for what I said earlier.

Someone will always be pissed off by something someone else says, but I haven't lied or deceived anyone on here whereas you've misquoted and twisted what others have said to make it seem like they condone sexual violence. Not really very nice.

I shan't repost the quotes from Vixcyn again as I see it is pointless < shrug >

and of course, beardy one, we must remember that you are, as always , very nice

[hgrin]

vixcyn
Listen, sweetheart, there is an entire thread devoted to arse fucking, seems right up your alley..

HappyHalloweenMotherFucker
how funny that you jumped straight to assuming I was in need of some arse fucking vixcyn

that'll sort me out, won't it ?

HappyHalloweenMotherFucker
Vixcyn, Sweetheart, your disingenuousness is rather endearing to attempt to pass off your personal attacks as somehow acceptable...

Why this doesn't work

1. Arse licking (to curry favour with someone, a common term in usage)

versus

2. "you are jealous and bitter"

"you want/need your arse fucking"

On a par with each other ? No.

Those quotes?

The one where cyn mentioned that arse fucking might be your thing? And then that you twisted it to say that it would sort you out? And then used quote marks to relay "you want/need your arse fucking" as if cyn had said it herself?

Tut tut naughty naughty...

The prosecution rests your honour.