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To go out and ask this girl if she's ok?

45 replies

MrsCantSayAnything · 27/10/2012 18:50

there's a young girl that's been sitting on a bench at the end of my road for at least two hours now.

It's odd because of where it is iyswim. this is a very residential area...lots of streets of old terraced houses and things...not near main shops or bus route.

She looks young and cold and not dressed for this weather. DH said "Oh she's probably just waiting for her boyfriend"

But I want to just check. Shall I? I feel a bit odd....but I can't stand the thought of her just sat there on her own it's dark now. I first noticed her when I nipped out a while ago to go to the shops...was at shops for a good while and then she was there when I came back.

I peeked up the road about ten minutes ago and she was still there.

OP posts:
somewherewest · 27/10/2012 18:51

Please do. Hope she's ok.

MikeLitorisBites · 27/10/2012 18:51

I would.

Willmouse · 27/10/2012 18:51

I would go and check she's ok.

glastocat · 27/10/2012 18:51

Yes do check. I was that girl once, and really appreciated a woman who checked I was ok.

ZiggyPlayedGuitar · 27/10/2012 18:52

I would. Be careful though.

DemureNewName · 27/10/2012 18:52

oh, definitely.

(lovely of you to notice)

MrsCantSayAnything · 27/10/2012 18:52

Right...I knew I should.

OP posts:
BrittaPerry · 27/10/2012 18:52

Yes, do. Hopefully she is just in a mood with her mum and sulking or something.

How old is she?

socharlotte · 27/10/2012 18:53

Yes, and you don't need our permission!

WorraLiberty · 27/10/2012 18:53

I would

She might be locked out or something

ISeeDeadFairies · 27/10/2012 18:53

Is she ok?

somewherewest · 27/10/2012 18:53

Let us know how it goes. Would be nice to known its all fine.

FlamingoBingo · 27/10/2012 18:53

Check! (how young?)

Hassled · 27/10/2012 18:53

Glad you're going - hope she's OK

nicki1978 · 27/10/2012 18:54

Yes agree you could just nip out and check she's okay. Xx

MagicHouse · 27/10/2012 18:55

Was she ok?

changeforthebetter · 27/10/2012 18:55

Yes. Hopefully its just a sulky but its cold. Better you than some low life. You sound nice.

Tailtwister · 27/10/2012 18:57

Yes, definitely check. Hope all is ok.

TidyGOLDDancer · 27/10/2012 18:58

I would check.

That's a long time and it is quite cold tonight.

TheCunnyFuntOfEastwick · 27/10/2012 19:00

Hope she's ok, what did she say?

LoveYouForeverMyBaby · 27/10/2012 19:02

Is she okay?

Portofino · 27/10/2012 19:02

I hope you went to check and that she is OK. It is lovely of you for noticing and caring.

GhostofMammaTJ · 27/10/2012 19:03

Come back and tell us.

roundtable · 27/10/2012 19:05

Well done for checking op. I hope she's ok.

Gunznroses · 27/10/2012 19:06

Hope she's okay, thanks for caring, she could be anybody's child Sad

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