I'm going to get flamed, but here goes. My DH earns £90k a year and before I decided not to go back to work was on £40k a year. We've just bought our first house, not in London, and mortgage is £2k per month. Then all the bills on top of that.
So on what most would consider to be a decent salary, we are still adjusting to living on one salary and go overdrawn most months. He's just been offered a new job with reduced pay and this now means that I will be leaving the start-up company I have founded with my step-mum to return to FT work.
As someone said earlier, the more you earn, the more you spend. It's how it is. I cannot complain about going back to work FT as we have set a standard of living that we want to maintain. My DH has worked fecking hard to gain the professional qualifications he has and create the career he's forged. I too have worked my socks off.
I don't spend my days in beauty salons or on shopping trips. I buy my DS's nappies from Lidl, have visible roots more often than I have naice hair. My DS wears mostly hand-me-down clothes and I'm going to interviews in dresses that I bought in a charity shop. Our car is ten years old and we cannot afford to go on holiday next year as we're trying to do up our wreck of a house.
I am not trying to plead poverty as I am damn lucky not to have to worry about heating etc. All I want to say is that salary isn't wholly indicative of how 'well off' someone is.