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Aibu to completely bypass halloween

107 replies

crazyhatlady · 21/10/2012 17:57

Just back from supermarket shop with ds and it was full of halloween tat, literally every corner we turned.
Now he's harassing me for said tat and tbh I just feel like it's a big marketing ploy to encourage people to spend money on crap they don't need

A lot of my neighbours seem to go ott decorating the houses. I just don't get it. I'm a single parent and trying to put cash away for Christmas, also got 3 kids birthdays to buy for next week. Ds is 4.

So am I justified or just a big meanie?

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ReallyTired · 21/10/2012 22:05

You could always play your Harry Secombe greatest hymns cd at full blast, that should keep the trick or treaters away.

That is far too evil... Its even worse than my typing.

Trouble was, it turned out to be red. DH thought he was on to a good thing, when he came home from work!

pmsl

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ReallyTired · 21/10/2012 22:07

go to sainsbos and wilkos the afternoon of halloween and all the stuff is reduced by 75'/,. stock up for 2013.

Surely you would have to go the shops on 1st November.

The sweets will be out of date by next year. Trick or treaters might be annoying, but giving them food posioning is a step too far.

GwendolineScaryLacey · 21/10/2012 22:10

Me and a friend are having a Halloween bake off. The children will dress as witches and we all head round to my pumpkin obsessed mother's for a few sausages, jacket spuds and the products of the bake off. The kids jump all over my dad and give us all headaches with their noise then we go home.

Minimal money spent, everyone's happy. :)

VivaLeBeaver · 21/10/2012 22:11

I've bought a noise activated giant spider that falls from the ceiling. Am going to nail it up to the porch way ceiling. Then when little kids come trick or treating it will fall on their heads. Grin

Also have a doorbell that plays spooky Halloween noises when pressed, a glitter spider for the front door, various bats, pumpkins and a black owl.

Next year I'm getting a fog machine for the driveway.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 21/10/2012 22:23

If it's not your thing, then it's not your thing.
I'm having a party (mainly because it's in half term and I love Hallowe'en) but I won't take my DC ToT ing.

I think there should be a law/rule whatever you call it that you don't go to houses that are not decorated.
Decorate= invite ToT ers.

No doubt at work (I work with the general public) there will be a fair few people complaining (they do about Christmas too BTW)

If I can be arsed (which most of the time I can't) , I'll get into a Hallowe'en discussion:
"Oh it's one of these American fads"
No it's more popular in Scotland and Ireland

"It should be banned, the elderly are terrified"

Terrified Hmm. Don't open the door.

I don't need to justify loving all the Hallowe'en palava.
I'm not wild about summer or hot weather but you never hear me complain about it .

Sallyingforth · 21/10/2012 22:28

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Sallyingforth · 21/10/2012 22:30

Sorry. pressed the button too soon.
I think it's a pointless excuse to sell rubbish. And as for letting small children go round from door to door after dark...

usualsuspect3 · 21/10/2012 22:31

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ddubsgirl · 21/10/2012 22:33

skint this year so not doing much,my son has grown 2 pumpkins in the garden to will harvest them soon and make soup & let him carve them,prob get some sweets in and stay in this year,boys going trick or treating i think,my neighbour is having a party and kids invited to that too,food a low carb recipe for cookies and have got some halloween cutters so going to make them with kids :)
i dont get the whole USA thing either halloween is a pagen celebration and comes from the UK lol!

germyrabbit · 21/10/2012 22:34

i just don't get the moaning about it, it's like a holier than though contest on here every year

if you don't like it don't do it - it's as easy as that!

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skyebluezombie · 21/10/2012 22:36

I grew up on a farm so never went trick or treating. DD is four and has never been. My friends think Im a killjoy, but i dont want to go around knocking on peoples doors expecting sweets etc. When she was a baby I put a sign on the door saying No Trick or Treat here please.

As DD grows up then I suppose i will have to let her go out with her friends, but she will only go to houses that we know are happy to receive them.

I dont buy anything, I dont do a pumpkin, I dont decorate the house. Its all too commercial for me.

Thankfully we are away for half term and the holiday park has a halloween party, so thats taken care of Halloween for another year!

Dahlen · 21/10/2012 22:42

Of course TANBU to avoid it if you don't want to get involved. It's not compulsory.

I love it. But then I will use any old excuse for fancy dress and a party.I don't spend very much other than on sweets for trick or treaters. Everything else is homemade or co-opted.

Dahlen · 21/10/2012 22:42

That'll be YANBU instead of TANBU Hmm

PersonalClown · 21/10/2012 22:55

If everyone wants to do Halloween, that's their choice.
Just don't keep banging on my door when I've stuck a note on saying that I will not be answering the door.
I had Ds upstairs sobbing because he was scared.

alcofrolic · 21/10/2012 22:57

What? Bypass the celebration of a Catholic being hung drawn and quartered in a time of religious oppression? Shock

alcofrolic · 21/10/2012 22:58

Oh bugger - that's November the 5th....Blush Blush Blush

ddubsgirl · 21/10/2012 22:58

round here we only do to the houses that have decs up or a pumpkin.

Dahlen · 22/10/2012 09:50

I don't let my DC go trick or treating precisely because I worry that they'll upset those who don't want to get involved, because it can be intimidating if you have some teenagers in scary masks knocking at your door at 9.30 at night. That's why I have a party instead.

PatronSaintOfDucks · 22/10/2012 09:55

Oh what a miserable thread. Everything is an excuse to sell a load of tat - Halloween, Christmas, New Year, birthdays, royal jubilees, Easter, weddings, christenings. We should not have any holidays at all. This will keep evil capitalists at bay! Lets prohibit the Christmas trees like the communists did in the early USSR (before bringing it back a few years later when they realised how dreary a looong northern winter is without some fun).

I love Halloween. It's an ancient festival, celebrating the change in the seasons. I especially like it for reminding us, in our urban industrial societies, that we are still a part of nature and that it is wonderful to lift your head from the keyboard once in a while and notice that the sun is more than half-way through to its darkest days, that the harvest is in, that the leaves are turning gold, that the year is almost complete. And yes, let's celebrate the spirits, the dead, the ancestors, lets have a carnival before the November darkness envelops us.

I love trick-or-treaters at my door, toddler, child, teenage, adult, whatever. Every year I am ready with my carved pumpkin and a huge bag of sweets. And every year I am disappointed that only a few knocks come to my door. This year, I have a toddler, I am making him a costume and we are going out. And we are buying sweets and nuts and giving them out to whoever comes to our door. And we are having pumpkin soup and pie and all that!

TheFlumpsHaveEyes · 22/10/2012 10:02

YANBU. I don't buy any of the plastic tat - and actually I was quite Shock when I saw some of the stuff in Asda this year, quite nasty and definitely not aimed at little ones Confused.

I do buy a pumpkin, just because I like them. But Bonfire Night is more my bag, anyway Smile

SmellyFartado · 22/10/2012 10:17

YADNBU

I fecking HATE Halloween - not so much the festival and purpose of celebrating Hallows Eve, but the constant trick or treaters. My DC are too young to understand it and just get frightened by it all. I purposely didn't put anything up outside the house last year and we still had fecking teenagers ringing the doorbell shouting trick or treat until gone 11pm.

We're going out this year to avoid the constant trick or treaters and I couldn't be happier about it. In fact, I think we'll arrange to go out every year as the constant knocking of the door or ringing the doorbell for money/sweets just pisses me off.

Can you tell I'm having a grumpy start to the week?

Startailoforangeandgold · 22/10/2012 10:19

Halloween is very useful.

Making paper Halloween decorations, baking cakes and dressing up gives DCs something to do invalid wet oct 1/2 term.

Commercial tat defeats the object.

Loads of simple crafts in the Web for a 4y.

I love pumpkin lanterns, but I love, candles, fireworks and fairy lights too. Anything that brightens up Nov-March is OK by me!

Startailoforangeandgold · 22/10/2012 10:22

Invalid???? In a wet 1/2 termBlush

I don't like trick or treat much, but I live in the absolute middle of nowhere so I don't have to worry.