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To wonder what is the point of 'renewing your vows'?

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dolcelatte · 20/10/2012 08:08

I recently went to see Hope Springs - Meryl Streep excellent as ever (although I now see her as Margaret Thatcher which distracted me slightly!) but the film was touching, poignant and well acted. However, I thought the ending was a bit contrived, albeit provided a 'feel good' factor when the middle aged couple reconnnected with each other and renewed their vows.

Nevertheless, given that the vows are 'until death us do part' and/or otherwise intended to be on a permanent basis, it does seem to me to be somewhat illogical to 'renew' them, in the way you would renew say a car or a washing machine.

Has anyone done this and, if so, why - for example had you broken your vows or did you just feel that you wanted to make a duplicate public (or private) gesture of commitment?

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mutny · 21/10/2012 19:54

What is the point of renewing vows which are intended to last a lifetime unless one or t'other of them has been broken

^^ this makes me sad. that people are so cynical and that people are so judgy of others when it has no impact on them at all.

Even if true, cheating isn't the only way to break your vows. Why jump to that?

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