Well my ds was taken at the end of august, since then I have struggled but one of the people I wasn't really expecting to be there (knew each other but not well) has been my rock. Has given me the hugs, listened to me not moaned about my moods kept me busy and just been there for me, supporting me and I am so grateful to them. If I am honest I don't think I would be coping without them so I just wanted to say "thank you" from the.bottom of my heart.