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AIBU to not want my nan to pre-pay her funeral?

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IWishIWasSheRa · 12/10/2012 12:06

Bless my Nan, she just came round and told me that she is going to pre-pay £2100 each for her and my grandads' funerals so when they die we only have to make one phonecall.
I hate talking about this stuff so was a bit shocked at how morbid the whole conversation seemed, especially as they are only 76 and with reasonable health.

She said it was inflation proof and whenever she died the funeral would be at todays prices etc, it would be less for us to worry about, it is protected in case the company go bust- she's done a lot of work but I also consider her to be quite gullible bless her- often she signs up to things for a free pen or a toaster (Sunlife for example) Someone is making a profit from elderly people this way, is it really what they say it is?

They have £20,000 savings and I don't want them to part with a quarter of it now so that they may end up having to be more careful with money in a few years time, I would rather they used the cash to be comfortable in their lives. To be crass, the funeral could be billed to the estate and the funeral costs be paid after probate. Is that sensible or should I let her go ahead and do this?

I would be really grateful for any advice, she is worried they will end up in a home leaving no inheritance and no funeral money (house is worth 100k). I just want them to be comfortable and not worry about this now, I keep telling them we don't want any inheritance but she thinks this is a good option.

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TalkinPeace2 · 12/10/2012 21:02

:-) expat

read the info - you'll be for last years' projects (22 year olds)

My grandad was in a study of metastised prostate cancer
My granny was in the set of "holy shit she's 96 and takes no pills"
My uncle was the "how the heck did it move from lungs to brain that quick"
My aunt was "maybe that radon is not so benign"

what convinced me was the fact that the research projects that use the bodies are so essential to OUR wellbeing ...

wigglesrock · 12/10/2012 21:08

My granny and my parents in law both have funerals arranged and paid for.

My parents have a drawer in their spare room that has everything financial to do with their house, wills, insurance policies all filed and ready to go in it. My granny had to borrow money for my grandfathers funeral when my Dad was small and he's never forgotten it.

expatinscotland · 12/10/2012 21:16

No, thanks! They can have my organs, skin, long born, corneas, whatever can be used for someone else, but I don't want to be someone's 'project.

OddBoots · 12/10/2012 21:26

I would prefer to donate my organs to help people who need them but if I can't do that then medical science sounds good, I'd rather trainee doctors cut up dead people while learning than have to go straight to the live ones. I do appreciate that it's a very personal choice though.

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